i am a virgin and 21. i sometimes feel like having sex. but i don't think i have found the right guy to give my virginity for. i usually satisfy myself by having sex like thing with a matress. i sometimes feel bad about it and that it is a wrong thing to do . how do you explain this? am i in a real trouble or what?
2007-01-02 20:14:59 · 8 answers · asked by milona 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Keep satisfying yourself, there's nothing wrong with that. You'll keep doing that long after you loose your virginity, don't worry abt that, and don't feel bad or anything like it- there's nothing wrong with it, and everybody is doing it, weather they want to admit it or not. You are probably feeling guilty cuz we are all thought that sex is something bad, there are still some young people who actually believe that masturbation can hurt your eyesight or something similar. Feeling bad after masturbation comes from the same sources. Just realize that, and you'll get over it. You shouldn't rush with having sex, but don't wait too long either (weather cuz you are afraid, or you are setting standards too high), simply cuz you are missing a lot.
2007-01-02 20:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for some kind of sexually explicate response here so you can go back to your mattress with renewed interest.
Something tells me you are an aging, bald mid 50's lonely guy.
Get a life.
2007-01-02 20:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a matress won't get you pregnant, spread stds, or break your heart. i'm all for the matress. there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. most people maturbate whether they are sexually active or not.
2007-01-02 20:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by pandora078 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just trying to explore your sexuality and what you find pleasure in. You are not troubled. Relax, everyone is different in what they like and when things happen.
2007-01-02 20:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, youre one of the few who dont crumbe to their desires. be proud you are a virgin, and no, inventive mastubation is nothing wrong, unless it somehow hurts somebody wrong. you'll find the right person, it just takes time.
2007-01-02 20:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by shinglezach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a disorder it is only natrural to want to have sex but u do not have to give into the primitive urges it is truely up to u i am not going to tell you to or not to have sex
2007-01-02 20:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not in any trouble, don't do anything with someone else until you're 100% into it, and what you're doing by yourself is natural and healthy, you don't hav eto feel guilty
2007-01-02 20:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until you are ready.
2007-01-02 20:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋