my son who is 14 says he is saving up eighty pounds to buy some weed to sell with his 13 year old friend. I give him pocket money each week and i do not give him it for this. He gets 20 pounds a week and done bugger all. I relise i have been too soft, his room is a filthy mess, I also brought him a mobile at xmas and two days later he said did not want it, he kept going on about it, and would see it to me , for 45 pounds anyway, i have given him 30 but do not have enough this week so hes taken it off me and hidden it. Hes doing my head in. he wants money all the time , i gave him his pocket money so he could buy clothes but he buys hardly any it all goes on takeaways.
2007-01-02 20:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by dendeedenise 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
£80 for weed? i used to smoke it all the time so for starters u can tell him that he's being over charged if thats just for an 8th!! it shoudl b £20. ask the police to come n tlk 2 him. as he isn't ACTUALLY dealing he's ok. if they find scales with weed residue on them and 8 deal bags then they'll watch him until they see him dealing. or catch him picking up.
he's 14 and getting £20 a WEEK?! lucky kid. cut it right down, tell him unless he changes his way then it'll go full stop n u dnt wana hear anymore about drugs, evn if he's not smoking it (which if he's dealing he clearly is btw).
now lemme get this straight, u got the mobile 4 him, then he sold it BACK to u? give him a slap n just take it bk 2 the shop! he's 14, he may be moody but he's ur kid! u gotta put ur foot down now or u'll be visiting him in a young offenders prison within the year.
all dealers start off selling weed...then hash, mushrooms, coke...catch my drift? treaten him with the police, if he thinks ur bluffing..call it. get the police to talk to him, evn a night in the cells to scare him out of wantin 2 deal. he's an idiot if he starts
2007-01-06 07:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the F**K??
It is gonna be damn near impossible to get your son back on track, he is 14 and your silliness with him has gone on far too long. Take him down the nearest drug help place (we have D.I.A.L. in Britain) and tell them yourself your son is a drug abuser, what the hell do you think he needs the money for, he has an addiction. If you get no help there, go to the police for advice, they will put you in touch with the right people. I am afraid that he may fight you every step of the way, if he does, I do not doubt he will, Call some sort of drug line to get some proper advice on how to handle this situation.
You reap what you sew, and now, you are seeing the results of your parenting. I hate to be so brutal, but it's the truth. You had better get on and show some real responsibility.
2007-01-06 17:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Spoonraker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaaaaarrrgghh!!! All the drug dealing scumbags in the country have mothers who are soft like you. Toughen up for all our sakes. Here's an idea ........ make him WORK for his pocket money, just like I had to for mine. Bet your life I didn't either do, or deal drugs. He is in your house and he needs to respect you but he won't whilever you refuse to say no to him. If he wants to be a scumbag then shop him to the police. Save a few more school kids from getting into drugs by buying them off your son at school. You know where this all started? This all started when he was a pain in the **** toddler throwing tantrums and instead of giving him a damn good hiding, I bet you went 'oh, alright then' and gave him what he wanted. Stand up to him for Chrissakes. Put him in care - run away - anything except keep giving into his demands. Jeeeeee-zus!!
2007-01-05 02:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by nellyenno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was 13 i lied about my age and said i was sixteen at the newsagents to get a paper round job. I was up at 4:30 am delivering papers. tell him to get a job and earn his own keep.
2007-01-06 14:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop bein so f in soft make the maggot earn his money if he dont like it tell him to get a job and inform him that dealing drugs is still illegal and he can still be put in a detention centre although its unlikely coz like u the punishment system in this country is too soft
2007-01-05 09:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by ade r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giv him the money for the weed, then confiscate it off him and sell it to his mates, that'll teach the bugger to get himself a part time job
2007-01-05 12:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Stephen A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you and your son need some help. I'd consult a professional if I were you. This kid clearly has a lot of issues.
2007-01-06 11:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out the house or take his personal stuff out of his bedroom and bin them.
2013-11-25 20:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a serious matter you need to see a social worker soon.
2007-01-05 02:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Calchas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋