should i tell my boyfriend or not
we suppose to get married in a yr
what to do....
2007-01-02 20:03:25 · 15 answers · asked by samatha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is seriouse but its what you get for being silly you have to tell your boyfriend it would be unfair to not tell him wait until baby is born and have a dna test tell you dont know whos it is..
2007-01-02 20:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you should do the right thing and tell your boyfriend the truth about the baby as well as how many lovers you've had. If he so chooses to go tyhrough with this marriage, then I urge the both of you to be tested for HIV virus and other STD's. Please do not decieve him like that, tell him the truth and if you are under 18, I say that you call the wedding off and give up the baby for adoption. You can always have another child when you are older and more mature. Many parents today would do anything to have an infant of their own, my husband and I have been trying for over two and a half years, so make the right call and tell the b/f the truth about the baby.
2007-01-02 21:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think this sounds crazy but you need more than help. You should book yourself in for some serious therapy young girl. What the hell were you thinking ?? Haven't you heard of Venereal diseases or the like ?? You are certainly not mature enough to get married. You obviously do not love your boyfriend very much or there's no way in hell you would have slept with one other guy, let alone 6. I don't really know what to tell you to do. I guess you should be honest with your boyfriend about what happened and hope for the best. I don't like your chances of him sticking around for you though. Best of luck
2007-01-02 20:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you committing to marriage when you are not happy with this man. Obviously there is something lacking to make you go elsewhere. If you loved him truley, you owe him atleast some kind of honesty. Tell him what you did exaclty and about the child not being his possibly. You need to be more responsible for your actions. Now an innocent child isn't going to know who daddy is. Good Luck and I can't believe you are actually contemplating such a thing .
2007-01-02 20:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell were you thinking? Six guys in a small amount of time frame? With this day and age without protection? You are lucky if you come out of this without a STD or worse AIDS. You should get tested and in the future stop cheating and playing with not only your life but with all the others you sleep with and they sleep with. This is why people are dying out here.
And of course you should tell him.
2007-01-02 20:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend here says go to a psychic. I say wait till the baby is born and go to Maury. He'll pay for you to go and test each guy! Free trip to New York and everything.
Okay, seriously now...be careful. This day and age is right for STD's, Aids, serious repurcussions./...
2007-01-02 20:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by jen_hole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, do not try to catch attention by this sort of things
2nd, go and discuss about your problems with your boyfriend
3rd, stop asking silly questions
4th, try to be something more than a toy
5th, try to think a little
6th, it is not difficult
7th, it is not a decency to sleep with 6 different guys, no need to publicize it.
2007-01-02 20:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Majid S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like getting it from a lot of men, not judging you why get married. marriage is only going to compliment things.I would suggest getting your education on track make sure you use a condom and get it all if you want it.
2007-01-03 02:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if you want a truthful and stable relationship. If you would want him to tell you if he slept around, you owe him the same.
2007-01-02 20:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by enigmagirl5_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth! You have to except responsibility for what you have done!
2007-01-02 20:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa Sue 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋