I had a bad dream last night 2 teens broke into my house while i was home and i got hurt and so did my fiancee ... .The thing is in the dream i was walking out my back door and i looked at the bottom of the stairs and saw one guy ... now i'm scared to be alone in my house... Help
2007-01-02 19:52:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think it's just a little warning for you to be more careful when locking up the house at night. Sometimes I become very lax about these things too. Just your little inner voice telling you to get on the ball. Don't be afraid...it was only a dream. God Bless!
2007-01-02 19:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here. I cant even be alone in the day without the tv blasting. And I have 2 dogs who would eat anybody who trespasses who is not welcome.(lol ok they look like they would) I suggest getting some pets (dogs mainly) because then you wouldnt be alone. Also keep the doors locked and the blinds closed and dont think about the dream (I always scare myself by thinking stuff like "there are people watching me through the window") Think possitive. If you get really scared turn on music, talk on the phone or watch tv. But I mainly recomend getting a dog because they are there for you all the time, they can be visous and nice. My dog always knows if somebody is welcome or not. My neighborhood has had several breakins and once somebody left a knife at the end of my driveway. But when this happened my dog woke everybody up and we saw the criminal before he got in our house and we yelled at him to go away. So sorry for the story but the point is get a dog. Also I forgot to mention that it was a dream. Things like that would barely ever happen but I know what you are feeling. I sleep with the radio going, lamp on and a dog,cat, 2 guinea pigs and a rabbit making noise in my room. Noise is key! If you can only hear music or the tv you wont get paranoid. Sorry this is such a long answer! hope it helped though.
2007-01-02 20:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic. This is not a literal warning, nor is it an uncommon variety of nightmare.
You mentioned a fiancee, so I imagine your life is going through some changes or evolution right now, and your dream was most likely an exclamation of your subconscious fear that something unexpected will cause an acute loss or failure in your life. Not knowing the future is something that gives everyone foreboding from time to time. Chances are that you're generally an optimistic person, so this is just a venting of pessimistic spirit.
Not that that makes it any less frightening.
Until you regain your sense of inner peace, find what will make you feel comfortable while alone. Perhaps a radio or television left on in another room, or a pet, might help fill the space. Get pepper spray. Buy a new deadbolt. Just make sure to remind yourself that it was a dream, don't give in to fear.
2007-01-02 20:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by Geoff S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes open for signs different that possibly are happening. talk to your neighbor non-chalotly. Ask them to keep and eye out on things, don't have to say why. give them any reason. If family is ever around have them pass threw. talk to a close friend family consider their advise. Always keep things secure when you are home.Dreams can become a reality (Not all) Just it is possible. also is it possible that you have seen this person and he has intimidated you in a sense already? need to make it known. don't hold it in or back. It is hard to report something that is a dream, so look for signs. You do never know. I don't want to scare you worse. just watch and keep your guard-up.
2007-01-02 20:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A security system is a great idea. Call up a ATD or some other large co, and say something like,, a couple of months ago these guys from your co. came around offering a deal, can I still get this? saves allot of money on the install. I got one. Never a better investment.
2007-01-02 20:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you scared ?, you must celebrate. Two young boys want to steal your heart, they will try to do it maybe at a public place. It may hurt (may be reputation) of you and your fiancee. One of the boy may go all out to meet you in private, maybe at you home or the vicinity. All this is fun, but are you ready for the extra romance coming your way ?
2007-01-02 20:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes sense for that dream would be. Talk of another always leads/returns to the source .if you were the one walking out the back door than you would be the one to confront another face to face with a judgment, whether true or false.
2007-01-02 20:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aight this is whats up...
first off, if you have no children, then you will soon have two. these two kids will rob you of all your things and money. your house will be unstable and then you'll meet another guy and sleep around and your two kids will catch you in the act and who knows what will happen after the divorce. wait...that sounded bad.
forget all that just buy a baseball bat (or tazer) and place it by your bed and sleep happier cuz it sounds like you dont feel very secure.
have a nice night. and new year. and new marriage. dont cheat on your husband like i did. it ruined my life and i cant stop crying *sob*
2007-01-02 20:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Carcin Ogin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh wow, it quite is quite extreme. i'm no longer reliable with this style of stuff, yet in line with risk the guy you observed with the crimson and black coat is your son sooner or later? or perhaps, with the dark colours, he represents an omen of loss of life of a few style, like later whilst your baby had those terrible issues accomplished to him, in line with risk it skill that some thing poor will take place to somebody you already know and/or love, no longer neccesarily purely kinfolk.
2016-10-29 21:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just a nightmare. Lock up well at night and have your alarm system activated. You will be safe. Go to sleep reading a book (not a horror one!)
2007-01-02 19:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋