we have been dating for a month today.and we kinda had an argument the other day.a big one.but over something stupid.now he hardly picks up the phone when i call.whats up with that? should i keep calling? or just well. . . help!
2007-01-02 19:14:07 · 12 answers · asked by the best thing he never saw... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Send him a card with a simple, short apology.
Tell him you are so embarassed and ashamed by your behavior - be humble!
Tell him you want to remain his friend, and leave it at that.
If he doesn't respond, then it's over. But really, do you really want to be with someone who breaks up with you using the silent treatment.
Perhaps you've learned a painful lesson, but it will only make you better for the next guy! Im sure he's out there waiting for you!
Good Luck!
2007-01-02 19:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by DaBoomvang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sonal, I feel that it was not love but a mere attraction. Not necessary that the attraction needs to be physically or sexually, it can be even that, u start loving some one because he is caring you.!! But did you cross checked whether you have things in common or will you be really happy ? Now forget the past !! So now you need to understand is that communication is the backbone of every relationship. If it breaks, relationship breaks. Above all you are gifted with a small baby boy, so for his future you need to come together, share some points, try to talk to each other and one more thing, keep calm. Men some time don't like that you know people interfere in their life so you need to have "Sakshi -bhav" and also "Sahan-shilta" don't get angry or panic if he tries to scold you out. Try giving as much as love you can give to him, don't forget husband is just like a child, some times angry, ugly, bad but still innocent and still loving. So don't let go the fragrance in the relation and one day for sure you will be a good couple. And don't loose hope don't get depressed , every morning you should have faith in yourself as well as in divine. May god bless you all.
2016-05-22 22:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep calling. you will drive him further away from you. Nothing a guy likes worse than being hounded by a girl he really doesn't want to hear from.
You have made your move with the calls. If he wants to continue this relationship.....then let him make the next move.
2007-01-02 19:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not that into you. DO NOT keep calling him. It gives him all of the power. Have a little self-respect and pride. You deserve to be treated better than that. I would move on if I were you.
2007-01-02 19:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not picking up then dont keep calling him or it's just going to make the problem bigger. he's obviously not that great of a guy if he wont answer your calls after a little fight so just drop him before he breaks up with you
2007-01-02 19:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call anymore. If he is playing hard to get, **** it, he is not worth your time! Then when he calls... if he ever does..... don't pick up.... or if you must, just say **** you! Guys will always come crawling back. And for the love of GOD, BE STRONG!! don't give in!
2007-01-02 19:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by SHY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. The "Book" says to give him six weeks. He will call you if he's interested. If he doesn't he wasn't worth it in the first place. Give him a taste of his own medicine. Believe me, he will call because he'll wonder why you haven't. Don't give in.
2007-01-02 19:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by skycameronsoleil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should let some time pass and see if things blow over. Some guys are very hard headed and think that they have to be the stereo typical male that doesn't have to answer to a female. if your relationship was meant to be it will be.
2007-01-02 19:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by meatzapizza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I iwsh I had a perfect answer for you but I don't. Try having your friends to drop your name into their conversation. Honestly, I think if your split, it's probably time to move on. I wish you best of luck, Debra
2007-01-02 19:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by that_ohio_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Every couple had a fight.......... but a guy/ girl react like this than this situation clearly shows that "" He/ She dont care abt u, or love u...
So, I suggest u to Stop calling him......... & forget him..
But call him once ........ & say GOOD BYE!!! for ever..... & even if he apologise.......... or some thing else.......... DONOT TALK TO HIM... ""Be Practical in ur life"""
Hope this will help u......... GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-01-02 19:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋