Pls dont take me wrong.Pls i need help
2007-01-02 19:13:50 · 17 answers · asked by kkooldude66 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everyone is not comfortable talking about intimate things. there is nothing wrong with you...We are all different, thank God.So let up on yourself..
2007-01-02 19:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand your discomfort. I had the same experience. It's probably no help to tell you that this will pass and you will become more comfortable in time. While waiting, start reading. Read about sex, as a biological exercise, as a romantic experience, as a focus of energy and so forth. Also, much of what your friends are talking about may be mostly wishful thinking or boasting or unrealized fantasies on their part. I can guarantee there are girls out there who will have sex with you, or boys who will have sex with you, whichever you prefer. Finding them is the problem. That's another question, however.
2007-01-02 19:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confide in a friend you feel closest to and tell him or her how you feel. Believe it or not, one of your friends may feel the same way as you do. It's perfectly normal to have shy feelings at your age. Being shy just means you'll be careful as far as relationships are concerned and you'll find someone not necessarily for sexual reasons. They may actually have a heart and a brain. They'll have the "other" parts, but you can enjoy who they are until you feel comfortable enough to move on, if that ever happens. I would just talk to someone in your group of friends about your "problem". I think it's normal to feel that way at your age. Best way to handle it is to face up to it, be honest with someone. Believe me, things will change regardless. You will feel as though you were struck by lightening. Now just isn't the time.
2007-01-02 19:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have to admit that it's a bit weird for a guy ur age to feel shy when it comes to the topic of sex but don't worry about it.. everyone is different and it's just not in ur nature to talk abt sex with ur friends.. if ur friends start talking abt sex u can try to change the topic or u can just be honest with them and tell them that u don't want to talk abt it.. do what u feel u are most comfortable with..
2007-01-02 19:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by cfrozty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my take on this is the following. You are a human being. A fundamental condition of being human is our sexuality.
Try to recognize sex for what it is; something God created so that He could have a good laugh whenever He looks in on us.
You're a teenager and sex is a big part of any healthy adult relationship. So, we talk about it. We joke about it. We ask questions about it. We brag about it. We just plain mess around with it.
Relax and learn about it and have fun with it. No harm in listening to your friends talk about it. Good luck.
2007-01-02 19:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing to be ashamed about. It's a natural thing. Are your friends talking about it in a derogatory sense? If they are, then I think you are strong and decent for not joining in, as they may take sex for granted. Sex should be a special thing and I don't think people should talk about it to their friends.
Be strong and upstanding, and most of all MATURE.
Tell them to save it for the bedroom.
All the best.
2007-01-02 19:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a 25 f..and i too dont feel comfortable talking about sex...my friends talk about sex alot and most the time i just sit there and pretend to agree....you do what is comfortable with you...when you are ready to talk about it..you know it wont be an ignored topic since they are goin on about it without you...to you it sounds like sex is a personal thing and that is ok...you talk about it when you are ready and no sooner..good luck
2007-01-02 19:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by michele m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you aren't ready to start talking about sex with friends & that is completely normal. Infact, somethings are better left not discussed amongst friends. I rarely talk about my sex life with my friends because its none of their business & I have family I can always talk to because they know what is best for me in any decision I make.
2007-01-02 19:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by ms ambitious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey most of their talk is bragging and they aren't half as good as they state they are.
Walk away and do something else when they get on the subject.
Or change the subject. No need to make it obvious to the other.
2007-01-02 19:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it cos in a few years it will be the only thing on your simple little mind .
2007-01-02 19:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋