there this girl.I said something she took ofence.I had no intention of insulting her but i did.very first time ever interacting.Do I try to appolize.Seems i just keep digging a bigger hole. everytime i type something.
2007-01-02 19:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by Bruce S 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It is possible to change an impression that was first given. It's hard to bounce back after you insult someone right from the start. How can someone not be offended when you call them something they are not? It helps sometimes to simply think before you type. What you must realize is that there are real people on the other side of the avatars. Just think before you type next time. It could make all the difference.
2007-01-02 19:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by ... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"It's a good rule to follow the first law of holes... when you are in one... stop digging!" (can't remember who said it).
Yes, it is possible. My first impression of my best friend was "Who the HELL does this guy think he is?" His first impression of me was... "What a B*TCH!!!"
Maybe stop apologizing. You can only do so much. Maybe she will see this and... Maybe email this question to her? And if that doesn't improve things, maybe she is someone you don't really want in your life. Sounds kinda high maintenance. (But then I really have no idea what you said to her!)
2007-01-02 19:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course! Apologize without expecting forgiveness. It may take some time depending on what the insult was. Then move on.
2007-01-02 19:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by cleo_michelle73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is. There's always a second impression, and a third, and a fourth, etc.
2007-01-02 19:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by MariJM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and maybe leave her alone for a little while.
2007-01-02 19:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
4 me, 1st impressions last.. & u cant change it once d impression's made
2007-01-02 19:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it. unless it's like, a long lost sister or something.
2007-01-02 19:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. its possible
2007-01-02 19:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by igottanoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will end up loving you...
This happened to me with my bf.
2007-01-02 19:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by adorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i know the girl you speak of.........a piece of advice my friend........beg.....don't ask for her forgiveness!!!!!!!!! then shut off your computer and go sit in a dark.....dark room and think about your sins.................................
2007-01-02 21:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋