What do you do when your husband leaves you after 6 years of marriage? with no real explaination?

Question

I may be on the street tomorrow....( or 30 days)

Answer 1

I see how some one can leave without a VERBAL explanation.

What I don't see is how someone could just leave like that with out you-yourself having no explanation? I mean there must of had been some type of mixed feeling between the both of you at some point for him to leave after 6years? ..but hey if he's gone then it's time to wipe the tears of your face and move on.

You have to first and for most accept the fact that he is gone and you absolutely can't speculate or hope he comes back anytime soon. You want to then focus on what you can do to resolve the problems he left you with. Have you searched for a job? Have you thought about loans? Is there a family relative or friend who can give you a hand, while u get back on your feet?
If both of you are legally married, there are certain laws that protect you and enable you to some type of money compensation.... you might want to research your state on local city laws on that..

All I can say to you is.. be prepared for the worst but try for the best. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

Veronica, all the answers here are good. Nobody does something without a reason...so he has a reason he doesn't want to share with you. But honor yourself. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as the truly great and wonderful person you really are. You are your own best friend. Those who can't see how wonderful you are, they are missing something in their life. Are there kids? If so, remember that the kids will always have two parents...and don't use the kids to attack him. If no kids, then do your best to put him behind you and move on with your life. Is this going to be difficult...of course. But remember, you do have control over how you vie life, how you react to life and to what the universe presents to you. So if he no longer recognizes that you are truly wonderful, you keep remembering that [you are wonderful] and move on. Do you have skills, training, ambitions, goals? Do a bit of research into your own life, asking what you would like for yourself and how you might get it. It takes time to get over a serious relationship. You will get over him. Begin working on that, and on what you are going to do with the rest of your life. Look at the choices you have, the opportunities, the chance to experiment. You can move to anywhere you wish, you can work at any job for which you are qualified. There are shelters, YWCAs, special housing in most large cities. Check with family and friends for small loans to carry you until you get your feet on the ground...go to your ex and tell him what your financial needs are and ask how he is going to help. See an attorney and find out what you migtht expect in the way of spousal support (alimony). Good luck and you have my support.

Answer 3

There is a good explaination but he doesn't want to tell you.
You just gotta move on. Hey don't let him kick you out. He is leaving the marriage......make him leave and you change the locks on the door. Be sure you draw out 1/2 of what is in the bank account until he cleans you out. Get an attorney to protect you.

YOu will have to grieve the loss. But, you will and you can move on.

The best revenge is for you to be happy and sucessful.

Answer 4

Confide with a family member with whom you feel com-
fortable with or your best friend and start the process of
getting a divorce. Make sure you get a lawyer so that you
can get your share of any property or money that had
taken place when you got married. Then the next big step
is to go on with your life, yes it will be dificult at first, but
with the support of the family and your best friend you
can go on living. In this world we have our ups and downs
but with the will power that is in us we can survive.
Good Luck.

Answer 5

My husband left me after 7 years and it was the worst pain ever. He never gave me a reason however I soon found out that he had found another woman and had been cheating almost our entire marriage. He had been gradually pulling away from me to prevent himself from hurting and basically didn't care that I was. However now I am glad that it happened because I found another man and he is 10 times what my first husband was. Good luck.

Answer 6

No you won't be on the streets! 1/2 of everything he's earned in the last 6 years is yours...including the house.

Answer 7

You should consider on going back to live with your parents. Tell them what happened, they should understand.

If you don't have family or friends around close by, then try going to a homeless shelter.

There has to be someone who can take you in. Don't give up! You just need to move on with your life. Not sure if kids are involved, but if they are, you may want to apply for aid from the social services so you can feed your kid(s). Do this right away!

Answer 8

I had similar experienced my hubby decided to leave me after 21 years and having kept the women for 4 years. He is trying both ways. I left him clean his bank. Now planning to start new right away. Kids should be okay as they are tennages already although a bit sad.

Answer 9

Give me a break, please. You had no warning your husband was unhappy? Did he wake up and take a pill and decided to walk out, don`t think so.The first thing you should be doing instead of asking advice of strangers is " take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror" preferably naked. If you really think you have no fault and responsibility for your breakup your sure to repeat it again.

second get off your duff and get a job, and don`t look for another man until you can support yourself

Answer 10

If your husband is leaving you, then you should get some shelter to live in. Your husband should not have done this.He should respect you and should love you very deeply. I fail to understand as to why he is no accepting you his wife. You should look for another guy and live wigh him. Satisfy all his needs hen he will accept you his wife and enjoy the sexual life with him.Good Luck.