2007-01-02 18:29:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
SH*T HAPPENS ya know
2007-01-02 18:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by smokingstonersweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort-of did. That sounds funny, doesn't it. By sort of, I mean that he sometimes drinks and smoked weed, but never ciggarettes. I don't smoke anything at all, and I only occasionally drink. We weren't actively trying to conceive, but it happened in my first cycle after my birth control pills got messed up.
Smoking weed does have an impact on a guys fertility, lowering sperm count and mobility, but I don't think that it will affect the health of your baby. But just in case (seeing as how this issue hasn't been widely researched) I would make him go somewhere else while he smokes and don't do it yourself.
Alcohol and ciggarettes are the same way, but I believe these two are more damaging if you did it during pregnancy, or if he smoked around you.
The way you stated your question I can't tell if you are pregnant and worried about the effects or if you are trying to get pregnant, but based on the board that you posted on, I'm guessing that you are trying.
Tell him to cut way back, and don't do it at all for at least 48 hours prior to having sex, and don't have sex every day so that his sperm count has time to rebuild. Good luck!
2007-01-02 18:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have four kids with a man like that he really didn't drink all the time but he smoked a lot of weed. And by the way all my chidren are normal and don't have any health problems for the one who anwsered and said to be prepared for problems. The only thing with having kids with someone like that is that they sometimes get their priorities mixed up and spent money on weed or beer when they realy should be buying diapers or food.
2007-01-03 00:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Angela B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say I have or would ever like to. I have much more respect for myself AND my potential children to subjugate them to an environment. I guess I just never want the experience of explaining to my kids that daddy is in jail because he was drinking and the police found marijuana on him. Nice bringing up, huh? Also, most people who smoke weed aren't just smoking weed... need no argument here -as I work in drug rehabilitation.
2007-01-03 01:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cadillac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have a baby with a man like that? If he doesnt stop those bad habits leave him cause you cannot raise a baby in a house that smells like smoke.
2007-01-02 18:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my craxy days of being stoned almost 24/7 and same with b/f also drinking every other night, i fell pregnant but lost it at 9 weeks.
2007-01-02 18:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by raadsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as neither of you has been drinking when you try to conceive, you needn't worry. Alcohol can cause much harm indeed. Smoking - not really. At least, no reliable evidence about it.
2007-01-02 21:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by nelabis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend smokes, drinks & smokes weed...& we're going to have a healthy baby from what my doctor told me...it doesnt really matter what the guy is doing...it matters what YOU are doing...if he isnt smoking around you then you'll be fine...the baby doesnt recieve anything from the male except his dna so therefore you have nothing to worry about...you just need to take care of yourself & you'll have a healthy little baby :D..
2007-01-02 19:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by Twinkle in My Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have 2 children with a guy like that.
2007-01-02 18:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by beaner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first childs dad did.... Shes fine ! He smoked quarters like nothin flat ! LOL and Im a cop ! LOL ! JeeeeZzzz!!!
2007-01-02 19:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap.
2007-01-03 05:20:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋