Iv always wanted to but i just got out basic training and now know somewhat what happens in iraq and they guy you love is gone like 9 months out of the year. Youd be by yourself alot. And if the worse was to happen. Thatd be horrible ya kno
2007-01-02 18:08:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I wouldn't like that. I'd find it hard to be faithful and would get very lonely. I do like men in uniform though!
2007-01-02 18:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It would depend if we could stand each other, and if we actually loved one another.
I hate the thought of divorce, since I've dealt with the fact before.
I wouldn't stand a abusive or total controlling relationship, but I would try my best to keep him happy.
I have people in my family who are in the Military, or who have been, so it's not something that I don't know.
But it would have depend on other factors than just love to conclude if I we're compatible for one another.
Maybe someone who has grown up in a Military family could answer this question better than me, but it's something to think about anyway.
But I would marry a man who asked me if we loved each other enough to go through his career and what he would be ordered to do.
2007-01-02 18:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Rozene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, my hubby is in the Air Force. I want my men to be accountable, responsible and respectful. The military definitely teaches boys to become men. Don't marry just for the uniform, marry because you love HIM. If you do, don't cheat on him if he is deployed and your excuse is "you're lonely." Very pathetic. These men serve our country and their wives seem to think they are entitled to attention from other men while their men are protecting their freedoms. It disgusts me. You knew he was a warrior before marriage, don't complain about it when you're married. You knew better, don't b*tch about it.
As for the above comment, "I find it hard to be faithful." No honey, you have no self control, no respect for yourself OR your husband, and are extremely selfish. You shouldn't be allowed to be/get married. Makes me sick. Go sleep around with random guys, you obviously have no self control. Don't bring a man and kids into your world also.
2007-01-02 18:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have fallen in love with him and you feel like he is right for you then his profession should not really matter just as long as he is doing something honorable.
I have married a military man and although I was not aware of his job to its full extent I would still marry him no matter what.
2007-01-02 18:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are really in love with each other, the profession doesnt matter anymore.
Personally, for me, i wont..just my preference
2007-01-02 19:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋