I would like to know if i am asking for too much as i would like to have it at least four times in a week. or whether it is him failing in his duty?
2007-01-02 17:47:41 · 27 answers · asked by Betsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He needs to see a Dr. Once a week is not enough if you've been married 20 years. You're about right 4 times a week, more in some weeks.
2007-01-02 17:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every time I hear about a woman that has to ask her man for sex I just don't get it. If you are doing what you need to do to look attractive, be fun in bed, etc. then he is failing you as your husband. My wife is lucky that we both need to hold down jobs or I don't think she would ever see the outside of our house... that is how much I desire her. If you average it out, we have sex once a day... if we miss a day during the week it is more than made up for on the weekends! Good luck to you... Print this and show it to your man... he is dropping the ball. He should be grateful that you want him like you do and he should keep you happy before someone else thinks that they need to! Ask your man this... when he was a skinny kid in high school dreaming of getting to first base, did he every think that he would be married and not wanting to have sex with his beautiful wife who was right there and making herself more than available to him! After two years he should still be swinging from the light fixtures!
2007-01-02 18:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look. you're the two married and fooling around. once you first married you had a love to your companion that grew to become into meant to final perpetually. Why no longer supply up in this new boyfriend and get on including your life including your husband and stop messing around and be truthful on your husband and re kindle the affection you as quickly as had? Your boyfriend will continuously cheat on you. So why go on living like this? return on your husband till now it is too late. in case you won't be able to do this then stay single and a few day detect a single guy which will make you happy? reliable success
2016-10-29 21:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some couples would be delighted with once a week. Find out why, is your husband very tired after work, could you try going to bed earlier, if you come on to him does he respond or turn you down flat??? If he responds then get him to the point where he can't or won't refuse. For some people, the expectation to perform can be a turn-off. Find out why this is an issue in your relationship.
2007-01-03 00:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is having a wrong mindset....would have been misguided by someone that love making frequency would hamper health etc.....U check with any newly married in India..They would readily recoprocate that they are doing twice or thrice daily. After a year or two, it would be daily once. I know many people who cannot sleep without love making. In most of the indian households it would be a daily routine. Hence your demand for 4 times in a week seems far below our standards that too after just two years of married life.
2007-01-02 18:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by sundar6873 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 Times a week. Hmmm, count me in. I would love that. It takes a passionate man with craving fantasies to have the energy to make love that often. What types of sexual memories are you storing in his head. What is he fantasising about when he thinks of you. First off mirror him. If he's not in the mood than you are not in the mood. If he's in the mood, you're in the mood. In the mean time find something subtle yet sexy to wear (example:shoes, skirt, see through top or bottoms for bed time) and practise bending over more often. Kitchen counter, picking things up off the floor, use your butt to put some fantasies in his head. Try that for a week and let me know if it changes his cravings.
2007-01-03 01:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is - once a week come on Mr! What is he thinking?! I am with you at least 4 times a week! Maybe 7 or 8. His sex drive is low, he should talk to his dr about this, he might have a disease like diabetes or something
2007-01-02 18:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do: When at home, start wearing as little as possible. If you aren't already....start working out or glam up a bit, get a makeover. If you are walking around lookin and feeling good and he still doesn't want it......he's either gay or cheating (or maybe both) That is definitely not normal. He's got a problem of some sort!
2007-01-02 18:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by cakekweeny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His sex drive is obviously not as high as yours ... There's not much you can do about it if he doesn't want to be seduced by you - try all the usual things, sexy lingerie, massages, candle-lit baths, flirting outrageously in public ... If that doesn't work, buy a vibrator or meet up with another guy for some no-strings sex! I'm sure you'll get plenty of offers from the guys on here - me included! Call me ... my mobile is (Deleted for my own safety!)
2007-01-03 01:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, coming from his point of view, I have to sympathise (with both of you)I think sex shouldn't be a chore.
He probably just has a lower sex drive than you right now... for many people their drive fluctuates through the year to my ears, it sounds more unnatural to say once or twice or six times a week... but frustrating you is certainly not the way to go, but having to push himself(!) through something that feels more like rote than romance is not good for your relationship overall...
the most obvious conclusion to me is that he needs a little help. if you can bare to get a dildo or something then good luck hiding it!
if not then it's still not the end of the world, there are alternatives to find, but you both will probably have to find them between yourselves...
peace
2007-01-02 18:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋