My friend will be getting married in september and she has asked me to be a brides maid. I am very happy for her. She really deserves it. my concern is over the years we have grown apart so much that even though I have accepted this does not feel right. (being a part of the bridal party)
The thing is over the years we have had alot of misunderstandings that have driven us apart. We barely call each other. I haven't even seen her in over a year......I have been trying to contact her over the christmas holidays and even now none of my calls were returned. so I am really not sure what her motives are.........what do you think?
2007-01-02 17:45:22 · 7 answers · asked by Lady Mandeville 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well
friendship is one thng tat requires no time , no meetings its somethng tat relates 2 hearts....
so please don't feel just oz u haven met her for long , things would be different.
now coming up to the point of being maid i suggest that is probably u have drifted so apart tat she must b thinkin it as a way 2 get bac closer.
its said tat when all fails actions speak.
please don't take it as an ill intension as she would nvr want to spoil her marriage 4 anythng so if she's givin u an honour its to Patch up n strengthen the bond of ur frnshp
2007-01-02 18:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by sanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if she asked you, something inside her really wants you to be there with her. Do you two go back awhile? It is kinda of random for her to suddenly ask that after not seeing each other for a while but maybe its her first step toward rebuilding the friendship you once had. Maybe call a few more times but if nothing then i think its better to forget about it.
2007-01-03 01:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by dandanthecranman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb she realizes that u to are separating and she wants to mend your relationship. That mite b y she asked u to be a brides maid. just talk to her about it if you still want to be friends. But if you two have be come way to different people then mayb you guys shouldn't be friends any more just remember the good times you had together and move on.
2007-01-03 01:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Chantal..carpe diem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably nice-looking and she needs another bridesmaid to balance out the number of groomsmen. Do it if you want to...it's kind of fun, like being a princess for a day...but don't feel obligated, especially if it will mean purchasing an expensive dress that you'll only wear once.
2007-01-03 01:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the two of you have been friends for a long time. and she's probably remembering all the good times you guys shared and she probably thinks of you more like a sister that just a friend. and her wedding is a very special occasion, and she wants you to be there and share that with her because you're very special to her. just let the past be the past and try to forget all the bad and just remember the good times, and all the good times yet to come.
Best Wishes With Everything!
2007-01-03 01:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say stay home and spend time with your bf.
2007-01-03 01:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she is using you or she really wants to to be close to her again ,,,that u cud sense out better
2007-01-03 01:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋