Ok...my wife and I have been married 10 years.
We are verry secure...very stable.
Even when we were dating, she admitted her number 1 fantasy, would be to be in bed with 2 guys.
For years now when i would ask if she REALLY wanted to do that - she always would say no.
Her birthday is on the 26th.
She told me last night - if i brought a guy here on her birthday, she would go through with it. We even talked about possible men that we know!
Should I let her fulfill this fantasy?
Yes...its a fantasy of mine as well to see her ravished by another man - I've had a "sloppy second" fantasy forever it seems.
Have any couples - ever done this just once?
We would never want it to be a lifestyle - just a fantasy fulfilled for both of us one time.
If she has wanted this for so many years - am i wrong to consider allowing it?
2007-01-02 17:25:08 · 2 answers · asked by JOHN M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she is comfortable enough to discuss what she wants, and you want it too, there's nothing wrong with doing this. Make sure you are very clear with the 3rd person what you are doing, and then no one will be confused or get hurt.
2007-01-03 10:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE!
Do it!
It is a serious rush to see another guy screwing your woman - but - beware...
It'll turn into a lifestyle! Andf what's wrong with that???
We love the lifestyle - it does not overpower our normal life - we "play' maybe 3 - 5 times a year, but man... it sure keeps the relationship and the romance - and especially the sex, new, young, strong, and happy...
2007-01-05 03:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋