I have a friend whose friend is using them ! I can see it and everyone can too also she has only has been my friend only a year. Her friend is taking her for a ride on money and other things.
2007-01-02 16:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by Mz Jones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
EVERYBODY PLAYS TO FOOL AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIFE...YOU CANT PREVENT THE USED FROM GETTING USED...I WOULD JUST TELL HER THAT I THINK YOUR OTHER FRIEND IS USING YOU...MAYBE SHE IS OKAY WITH IT...IF SHE IS...U MIGHT AS WELL JUMP IN ON IT...AINT NO USE IN MISSING THE FREE RIDE!!!! LOL
2007-01-03 03:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by the one 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speak up!!! But in a nice way. If you and others see it, what kind of friend are you if you don't say anything? I know that you are taking a big risk by saying something, however, you have to put yourself in your friends shoes. Would you want someone to hurt your feelings by telling you that you're being taken for a ride or assed out in the end with no cash or possessions?
2007-01-03 02:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Summer Breeze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
an honest answer. seing as how i am the type of person who prob gets taken advantage of easily and finds it harder to stand up than just take it in to avoid conflict. The easiest thing i do is show signs i do not like being with the person. Distance myself away and hopefully that will give them the hint. Its kinda indirectly telling them. You can tell the person to stand up but if he hasnt already then hes the pushover type which i dont blame.
2007-01-03 01:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by gerardmichaelnorris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not the one who is being used by the friend then it's best NOT to get involved in the situation. You can encourage the friend who IS being used to confront the friend who is mistreating her-that's all you can really do.
2007-01-03 01:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ãf you think that your friends "friend" is using her... I think you should ask the hypocrite sraightup about it and be prank. If the hypocrite is being a b**** about it, tell your friend about it because if she's being like that to your friend then that means she doesn't care about your friend's feelings and she just might hurt your friend
2007-01-03 03:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Ryan&&♫ Music= MY LiFE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hm..well.. first of all confront ur friend...and ask her if she notices it too.. try not to confront the her friend [the user] b/c she is not YOUR friend and to her its non of ur business. but it is b/c she is using ur friend. tell ur friend that u notice that her friend is using her and that u care for her very much and don't want to see her be used anymore. than tell ur friend to confront her "friend" and ask her about it. b/c it wouldn't be okay if u walked up to her friend [the user] and just start telling her off, THAT ISN'T RIGHT. so talk to ur friend and tell her to confront her friend is the best way to help ur friend. sorri I know its confusing but its kindof hard using pronouns...
2007-01-03 03:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by |katt| 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can bring it to their attention. allow your friend to assess the situation and then take it from there. People perceive things differently and maybe your friend doesnot see it that way!!!
2007-01-03 01:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave the friend who is using u. and how can u call a person a friend when he/she is using u.
2007-01-03 01:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Fatima 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she doesn't see it then i don't think you need to bother if she won't listen to you. Just see what will happen. Stand up for her when something "bad" happens ok. People have to see it to believe it.
2007-01-03 17:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by Element 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do other than point it out to your friend ... its up to her to realize the truth of it.
2007-01-03 01:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋