I was at my friend's house after smoking weed and we were fooling around and started making out. I'm bi, but I don't know if she is. How should I talk to her about this? I'm going back to school tomorrow, and don't know how to handle this situation!
2007-01-02 16:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by Rivthika 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That's a tough one. Is she bi also, or just was taking advantage of being uninhibited?
If there were guys there, just forget it. Uninhibited girls play bi all the time to impress them.
If you're not sure completely about where your friendship/relationship stands with her, I wouldn't press the issue. Just let it come out (no pun intended) on its own instead of risking screwing things up/making them awkward. (I've been down the latter route. Wasn't pretty.) Let her bring it up, or just forget it for a while and see where things go.
Of course, she obviously must have wanted to do it somewhat or it wouldn't have happened. I've never been on pot, but I can't believe that while on it, you'd do anything that you weren't already at least somewhat inclined to do.
2007-01-02 16:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by crashcart9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi there. I'm a lesbian and I would say that she probably is bi. You don't have to bring it up, either it will happen again or not at all. If she doesn't have a problem with it then she will talk to you as usual. If she does have a problem with it she maybe uncomfortable about it. I suggest you just try to act normal around her and hopefully she will bring it up. Give it a few days or so if she doesn't say anything then go ahead and bring it up. She will let you know how she feels with time.
2007-01-03 02:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by squem81 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry --you were making out with who? --her?. If it was her then why are you asking? sorry I'm not trying to be rude here--I just am not sure that I understand your question. Are you really asking how you should deal with the fact that you fooled around with each other --when you see each other at school tomorrow? If that's your question..then just play it as you see it...see how she approaches you tomorrow..that'll give you a pretty good idea and at least a starting point to go from.
2007-01-03 01:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Use your gay-dar! LOL...
No but really...the best way to get it out the way is to talk about it. And it you guys are really friends she will be honest about it. And dont take it so serriously...Just ask her and be cool with it. Cuz if she sense's that it's a awkard situation she's going to be weirded out! The best way is to make her comfortable bout it...if she's not...so be it...she was just testing the waters!
2007-01-03 00:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by MC like WHAT! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you're high again and ask her. With no inhibitions I'm sure she's bound to tell you the truth.
2007-01-03 00:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make out some more That should help you find out.
2007-01-03 00:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by *ACDC* 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
pull her to the side and just ask her
2007-01-03 14:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. well, like the others said, just tell her.
but not too foward. :]
2007-01-03 00:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by April C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
flat out ask her.
thats all ya can do!
2007-01-03 00:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by redheaded_cherry08 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
check it out on your first night??? undies or boxers ....?
2007-01-03 03:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by eloi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋