2007-01-02 16:42:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont listen to cfoster00 she loves to tell people theyre insecure but i think she is
2007-01-02 19:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by L.A. WOMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are basically a good person with sound values, this inner voice called 'conscience' will let you know if you are a mean person.
Most of the time mean-ness is not planned but due to a situational outcome eg You wake up on the wrong side of the bed and you speak in a mean way to the first person around or someone has just made you angry and you take it out on the next person you meet. Perhaps you have not done well in something you put your heart at and you unthinkingly snap and scold your friends around. You then realise shortly after , that you have been a jerk for being so mean.
If you are determine to manage this weakness, you have to learn self control. Most of us are like this unless one is a saint.
2007-01-03 01:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when no one wants to be around you. You will know when people feel like they are walking on egg shells. You will know when someone tells you that you are a mean person. You will know when you are not treating people with respect. You will know when you have so much hate in your heart. You will know when you don't show love to people, but just being mean and disrespectful. You will know when you are hurting the ones that love you the most. Should I go on?
You could be dealing with lack of self-esteem. You could be dealing with depression. If that is so, do get some help immediately. Or you can be bi-polar.
Hope this helps you.
2007-01-03 03:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A mean person doesn't know they are mean and they have to ask others if they are.
2007-01-03 00:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do, think or say things that are hurtful to others you have a mean spirit. If you feel no remorse for these things, you are a mean person.
2007-01-03 00:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do people react to you , thats a starter. Ask your self on a daily basis did I treat that person the way I wanted to be treated.
2007-01-03 00:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by lovedarkpassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has a part of them that wants to be mean-the challenge is to fight that urge and be a caring and loving person-it's easy and tiresome to be mean-it's noble to always be your best-
2007-01-03 00:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If someone walks away from you crying, and you get even madder, and are sure that your horrible comments were justified, then you are irredeamably mean. I hope thats not you.
2007-01-03 00:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by treejamin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are constantly being rude and disrespecting the people around you. Thats being mean. :P
2007-01-03 00:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by bmd1889 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Nobody likes you. Do you like yourself? If you like yourself, maybe your just insecure.
Good Luck, Tony
2007-01-03 00:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋