ok, i've been w/ my bf 4 about 2 yrs. my parents & him were real cool w/ each other. he used 2 come over 2 the crib & chill w/ me & just have a good time. but, something happened & words were exchanged-so much drama. so, n-e-ways they weren't getting along 4 about 9 months. my bf wouldn't come to my crib or n-e-thing. but, now my dad is telling me that since he is my bf-he'll drop everything & let my bf come over again. my dad said that he'll be cool w/ him again. the problem is my bf is so hard-headed that he doesn't wanna come over. he says that he'll feel uncomfortable & he feel wierd. yeah, i understand that, but then he wants 2 throw in things like, oh & ur dad waited so long 4 this blah blah blah. but, it ain't like my bf tried 2 repair n-e-thing n-e-hows. & now that my dad is trying 2 repair it, he doesn't want n-ething 2 do w/ it. my ? is how do i get through 2 my hard-headed bf?
2007-01-02 16:37:37 · 4 answers · asked by Janelle Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Parents will not always see eye to eye with your boyfriends.
Fights do happen. I can understand why your boyfriend might be so reluctant to try to patch things up. He is being a little hard headed about it. I don't know how old you are so I would give you the best advice in the situation as I can. If you are young, then I would not worry too much about it because your bf will either come to his senses or he won't .
If you are older, he might be a little more understanding about your feelings if you explain to him how important it is to you that they work things out. If he accepts to hanging out with you, just make sure to make it a short visit just so they can get used to seeing each other again. Extend the visitations a little longer each time. Guys are guys and they'll eventually be like "what did we fight about?" Good luck to you. Just remember that family will ALWAYS be a constant in your life.
2007-01-02 16:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to find out a couple things about him in this situation. is he being hard headed because hes trying to manipulate you? if so hit him were it counts and call him on it! that would have the most impact on me in this situation. or he also might just want to hear directly from your pops that he is allowed back at your place. the other thing he might be trying to tell you is that he really never did feel comfortable at your place and this is just a good excuse not to come over. if thats the case, try suggesting some where else you two could hang out.
2007-01-02 16:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by lil joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dad made the frist step he'll come around all boys are hard headed give em time
2007-01-02 16:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by leslie0754 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that the kid has a lot of his own personal issues to deal with and either fear of pops or another relationship. find out if he truly cares for you. if he does he wont let anything keep you apart.
2007-01-02 16:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by onecoolmike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋