you see i cant get a job that pays realy good money. well when i was 18 i got in trouble 4 stealing. and the were i was liveng at the time it was hard 4 me to complete school.i realy like music alot but if you cant spell that good u cant realy write a song.my memory is bad not becase i am trying to remenber but i am trying to forget all the pain in my childhood.the girl i am with right now know i dont love her but she still gets mad.becase she thinks i am going to fake it.weel i got a lot of studio stuff its the only thing that makes me feel good.i have only one chance be something and that music. i am trying to belive but it is hard dont get me wrong i am realy good but i need some one to belive in me just a little bit.i talk to her about things i am interested in but she makes it clear in her face and her tone. she dont care.she also told me that what i am doing is bull shitt.well i think getting marred to someone you dont love is bullshitt.she has no idea what she did.
2007-01-02 16:28:19 · 12 answers · asked by theendbegins 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only person who needs to believe in you is yourself... with that you can accomplish anything. Also you need to let that chick go bc you guys obviously don't care about eachother, so why bother. Find a girl who will support you and whatever you choose to do. Good Luck!
2007-01-02 16:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Michelle makes a strong point. Read that one again if you have a chance. Really if you love to write music and you feel that is what you want to do with your life, then pursue it. Of course it would help if you spent some time to work or your writing skills, but you can always find a smart girl that is an English major and she can help edit your songs.
Remember, don't let your childhood be an excuse for you not making the best of your life now. I know from personal experience that a bad childhood can kill your confidence and make you think you will never be anything. This is something I had to come to realize; You can truly accomplish anything you put my mind to. You live in a country that you have the freedom to do anything that you want to do, and if you don't have the money to go to school for something, you can get a grant or loan to do so. Be confident in yourself and start tomorrow to break the chains of your past and do something for yourself for your futute.
2007-01-03 00:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Brad D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two kinds of people in this world...the kind that get what they want and the kind that don't. You have to make up your mind that you want something, and then work for it.
Success doesn't come overnight. I am a songwriter also, and I have failed a lot of times, but I am finally starting to get somewhere. You can record a song and submit it to record companies, and you don't have to be able to write it down to do that. Find a partner (romantic or otherwise) that can help you attach letters describing your songwriting, something that will really get the people's attention.
Most importantly, you can't blame someone else for your situation. It is not this girl's fault if you don't make something of yourself. You are in charge of your destiny, not her. Divorce isn't the answer either. Work through your problems, find a way to get through to her. She must find something admirable about you if she married you. Show it to her again.
Keep your day job, save your money, and keep practicing. If you try hard enough you will make it.
2007-01-03 00:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by hopewriter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you are a convicted felon. In some states, you can petition the court (with any attorney) to have the felony removed from public record. This will help with the job situations.
As far as spelling goes, you can have friends and schools assist. Computers have spell checks too. I admire the way you worded that you were "trying" to forget because of all of the pain. That said it all to me. My advice to you is that this is not a dress rehersal, so do not waste precious time by marrying someone that you do not love or someone that does not love you. You deserve better.
2007-01-03 00:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are right get rid of her now or suffer later!!!!!!! Two may-be you should go back into time a few years and settle out some scores with what you haven't accomplish and get them down packed, then you will feel better about yourself in them aspect's. And three, Practice and practice alot, stick with one thing that you enjoy doing trust me and practice and practice and you will feel it one day that you are great at what you do. Don't ever change some that you started and start somehting else you will neveraccomplish NOTHING and be felling like a loser all your life. Stick to one thing Get rid of your girl because some where out ther there is a girl that will enjoy what you are doing.
2007-01-03 01:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same shituhaten but I cant realy get a good legal job. Its hard when you just waste your/our lives on madness. you ever think about just singing? the best part about it is that no one else read your flows or notes what ever your into. consider whriting about your pain. I like to vent through hip hop songs I write. If "she" wont listen to your pain, make the world hear it. also dont do it!! Prenup. I feel your pain Im a former mth DUDE who has a felony for stealing checks, now Im on paper U As all of it and I could get what ever I want legal or non But I still aint happy. just thik of it like this some one has it worse then us. if you ever need to vent e.me fb_360@yahoo.com rember this all shal pass. good luck homie
2007-01-03 00:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by ineed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take some adult educational courses and learn to spell and write. If you feel that you can write music, by all means, do everything you can to make that happen. No matter what has happened in your past, you can move forward. Remember the past is the past and all you have now is the future, so make it work for you. As for your girl, dump her and find someone who believes in you and will help you accomplish what you want out of life. Good luck.....
2007-01-03 00:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a good church, and someone that you can confide in on a regular basis. Open your bible and read God's words of love written to you. You are worth more than the life you are leading, don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. Christ died on the cross for you. He came so that we may have life more abundantly. Please find a church that preaches about salvation and talk to the pastor or counselor. It will do you a world of good. I will be praying for you.
2007-01-03 00:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love her let her go. And you could go to night school and do your spelling and other subjects. Or try a literacy program. When there besure to mention that you are interested in going into the music field. They should help you if not try you local high school guidance officer, he/she may be able to help you. Good luck.
2007-01-03 00:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by ruth4526 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
education will help no matter what you do, finish school, go to college, as you age your pain will be more bearable
2007-01-03 00:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by scott h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋