How often do you feel soooo guilty for lying to someone about being busy just so u can blow them off? Family?

Question

How many times have u shooed someone away or lied that u were sleeping or busy and then thought to yourself "Oh my God, that's my mom, what if I never see her again?" How do u comfort yourself or take solace, or do u give in to the guilt and call right back, or do u think it's ok to do because you need your space?

Answer 1

well, lately I kind of feel low so I did that to my parents a lot.

I feel very guilty, actually that's one of my new year resolution is to call my parents daily when they are not here to see us.

I feel bad because I know I suppose to love my family and espically my parents.

so maybe let's tried to put away time for our parents.

I tend to take them out for breakfast to make up for the time I keep telling them I am busying clean my room.

I think I will also take my mom for a walk.

and for my dad, he like breakfast.

you need your space so we can give some time. then we don['t have to keep feel guilty.

Let's love our parents.

take care.

Answer 2

I don't feel guilty because I tell them the truth. I have told my mom and dad more than once that I'm busy or tired, or whatever the case, and that I would call them later - which I always did.

Answer 3

I do that very often, but not to family. I don't feel bad about it.