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2007-01-02 15:24:16 · 25 answers · asked by shanene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont know girls flirt with my husband all the time,i guess thats what we get for having hot guys huh?
2007-01-02 15:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control other people any more than they can control you. If they want to flirt then they're going to flirt.
Listen to what PleaseNoMoreNumbers is telling you - you have to trust your bf. If you can trust him then it doesn't matter what the other girls do. If you can't trust him then again, it doesn't matter what the other girls do.
And do NOT pay attention to those who tell you to punch out the other girls. The only thing that will do is get you into trouble and it may also be a big turn off for you bf.
2007-01-02 15:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by HooBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't, they're gonna flirt no matter what. And if they know u don't like it thats gonna make them flirt all the more. So unless he's flirting back u just have to hope he's tellin the girls he hads a girlfriend who he loves.
But sometime flirting is not so bad as long as it doesn't go too far and everyone involved know's to respect the other person whos the mate to the one who being flirted with
2007-01-02 15:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really stop anybody...u can't go up to a girl and say " hey back off he's mine!!" u can't stop people from liking a certain guy. don't worry about it. if he ur boyfriend than nothing else matters. he likes U and NOT them. that's why he picked u out of all these other girls. I know that jealous green monster can control us sometimes...but sometimes that can ruin relationships also. so try not to let that get in the way btwn. ur relationship.and if u see him flirting back then he is obviously a jerk and will hurt that girl when some other "hotter" girl comes along and is not looking for the looks and not the personallity and you don't want a guy just to like you for your looks do you? but for now push that insecurity beside...dont' worry we all go thorugh it and al that matters is now....what is and not what ifs.....or maybes...its all about now...
2007-01-02 21:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by |katt| 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things:
You have a guy that girls want to flirt with......not all girls do.
What matters is what he does. If he don't flirt back....and there is a difference between flirting and just being nice.....then what are you worried about.
Tell him to start flirting with you.
2007-01-02 15:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for crying out loud!
OK this "question" is either of two possibilities...
Either you are trying to tell everyone here that you are going out with an attractive guy.
Or you are a jealous freak that goes all nutso on her bf every time a more attractive girl walks by.
Either way .... Just stop!
2007-01-02 15:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
by flirting, do you mean just talking to him? I know alot of girls that think simply talking to their bf is flirting. So dont be crazy like that.
2007-01-02 15:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer is that you can't, people will flirt and there is no way to stop people finding others attractive. What you have to do is trust your boyfriend that he wont do anything. Trust is vital in any relationship.
2007-01-02 15:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur bf is hot then u really cant do anything about it. just be happy that ur the one that he wants. plus if hes loyal, he'll just ignore them even if theyre preety, but if he flirts back, then that means hes UNloyal and that also means that he's not content with u, and if he DOES flirt back the DUMP THE MORON! his loss not urs
2007-01-02 21:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Ryan&&♫ Music= MY LiFE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to be disiplined & tell them he's taken. my husband has been at his job 9 years & he works with the public, he has to turn people down alot, people have no respect & u have to be the better peerson & smile when u & ur man are together . If u don't trust him it will casue alot of problems
2007-01-02 16:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋