he is 17 i am 16 , both have jobs, he has a car, we been dating since summer 2006 and when we break-up he gets mad then we get back together. We are in love with each other will we have a pretty child. He is dark skin and i am a yella bone but we both are black.
2007-01-02 15:18:17 · 22 answers · asked by Thina Gutta 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Looking good is no reason to have kids. I would say you guys are young enough, live your lives and enjoy the time you two can spend with each other. There is always time to have children later when you guys are married. I was married to my wife for 8 years before we had children.
2007-01-02 15:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Martin Chemnitz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please, please wait. As you contemplate this, put the baby first in your mind. A child doesn't come into the world to gratify you--when you bring a child into the world, you are responsible for him/her, every minute of every day for the next 18 years. Compare that reality with the words of your question: "we been dating since summer 2006 and when we break-up he gets mad then we get back together. We are in love with each other will we have a pretty child."
Your genes won't change over the next 5 years or so. A baby then will be as pretty as a baby now. Only you and your boyfriend will have the maturity to deal with the situation.
2007-01-02 23:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by davidepeden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not have a baby you are too young! Do you have any idea how much work a baby is? Staying up all night with a screaming baby is not easy. Most of the time boys will leave you when you get pregnant at your age. The point of having a baby is not to have a "pretty" baby. Having a baby is for when you are ready to give up the rest of your life to take care of one. That means no more hanging out with your friends no more buying yourself things you want. You will be spending any extra money you make on the baby.If you you are seriously asking this question you are not ready for a child!
2007-01-02 23:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by goldielocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you right now..NO.. I dont care if you are purple. You havent know each other long enough to start a family and further more you are too young to think about this. I dont care if you are a bank president making trillions of dollors. You arent old enough to know what you want. So there. Grow up some more and when you know the diff between right and wrong and quit bickering when you break up .. maybe you will be ready for a commitment.
2007-01-02 23:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should only start a family if you know you two are ready for one. If you are going to keep on breaking up and making then I suggest not. If he has agreed to be a father to the baby then yes. If he is commited then yes. You should also wait until you get married, then you know he should be commited. If you are giving birth to your child and he isn't there for any reason at all, then you know that you have made the wrong choice. Take My Advice Wisely. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-02 23:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Please don't!
Wait atleast 5 years and then not until after you have made the lifetime commitment of marriage to each other. Also, both ouf you need to go to school (that means college, not just highschool), and get permanent jobs. Not after school jobs babysitting and flipping burgers or being a checkout girl either.
Then you might almost be mature enough to have a baby.
You don't have a baby because it will be "cute". Even the cutest baby is a lifetime every single moment of everyday, no breaks, heartbreaking, gut-wrenching exhausting commitment.
2007-01-02 23:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be older and in a stable relationship before you have kids. Breaking up and getting back together is NOT considered stable. Also, you need to be mature enough to realize that bringing a new life into this world is very serious, and being responsible for every single need that your baby has is not to be taken lightly.
There are many good reasons to consider having a baby - because you think it will look pretty is not one of them.
2007-01-03 00:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by baby_savvy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldnt start a family, wait a few years, then if you decide you two want to start a family, then by all means go ahead with it. But not when you two are teenagers, it will only be hard for you and the baby. I know its like the "in" thing right now for teenagers to get pregnant, but raising a child is there hardest thing you will ever do in life...
2007-01-02 23:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by wiscountrygirl89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The saying I remember is 2 ugly people make a beautiful baby. So i'm guessing no. Your baby is more likely to be ugly if you both are pretty. All the stuff about jobs, car and dating timeline has nothing to do with the looks of your baby. Plus you both are too damn young to start a family.What's the rush, beauty? as far as I know beauty never feed any family I've heard of. Slow down and love yourselves first.
2007-01-02 23:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by choco-vanilla 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
summer of 2006???? you been dating like 6 months??, your not in love you are in lust. get real,, wait until you are way older. a child is not all fun and games, it wont be all about you anymore, the child will become #1 priority, a job at mcdonalds on part time minumum wage isnt going to support a child. better think about it.
2007-01-02 23:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by luvnuttydog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋