Are multiple orgasms for women a myth? If not, what techniques (solo or with a partner) are used?

Answer 1

From what I've learned from "women talk" certain women can have multiple orgasms and some can't. I have had it happen a few times when he keeps at it. Or if I keep the toy on long enough :) I do have to give my clit a break though, but then go right back at it! I know that a g-spot orgasm can be repeated but be prepared to want a nap afterward! It wears you out!!!

Answer 2

A few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women 'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.
Multiple orgasm
The other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two.
This ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability that usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms - if they so desire.
Bringing women to a climax
For men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female climaxes is that with women, it's not a mechanical thing - as it generally is with men.
You see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren't very romantic - or even if they don't particularly like the person who's doing the rubbing! Women are not like this! Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions have to be right.
Although females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax:
a romantic atmosphere
pleasant, comfortable surroundings
a partner who they really like
a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore
a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.
Unless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.
Please bear in mind that - contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.
What to do
In summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:
don't be in a rush.
don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.
talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
always create a romantic atmosphere.
make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about making any approach to her sexual area.
when you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don't rush into 'attacking' her clitoris. Take things gently, and see what she wants.
use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris. (If she is over 40, it may be a good idea to use some additional lubrication from a chemist or a sex shop).
remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
sometimes encourage her to run your sex sessions. You can learn a lot by watching how she stimulates herself or by really listening to her when she suggests a sex position, or a particular caress.

Answer 3

They are definitely common. The problem is that everyone is different. Some women can only be brought to orgasm by clitoral stimulation, some by that and vaginal, and very few by just vaginal stimulation. Unfortunately, some women don't experience them. They are also rated. Some women can only get a 7 out of 10 'good feeling' orgasm with masterbation but less with intercourse.

So a long story short, try as many different techniques, many different lengths of forplay, and anything else that can improve sex. On top of this be verbal with your other to see what is working and what is not.

Answer 4

not a myth, i have them 9 out of 10 times. i think it is best on your belly so you can move a little bit so he can hit that spot. keep a pillow close so the neighbors dont have to hear about how good it is. good luck, try new things and don't give up.

Answer 5

it is possible, but depends on mental moods & physical health of both the partners.