he is my xclassmate. know him for 2 years.he is friendly. but he show liking to me only recently and i rejected him. the thing is that i always treat him like a friend. but he is thinking i m angry with him for some reasons i dont know and that i rejected him. i want to make things clear between us and at the same time will not hurt our friendship.please help.
2007-01-02 13:32:08 · 12 answers · asked by marry_a_kingkong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry the friendship is over. It is not your fault nor is it his. Once he started liking you there was only 2 thing s that could happen your friendship would end or you two would start dating.
Be nice to him but realize making to much of a fuss over him sends him mixed messages
2007-01-02 13:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with him and tell him that you didnt mean to hurt him but that you were only trying to be honest and that you didnt feel the same way. let him know that you still want to be friends with him becuase you value his friendship and that you dont want this to come between the both of you. The best thing to do is to be honest and its up to him how he's going to react.
2007-01-02 13:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive seen many cases of rejection.Experienced it myself and saw my friends getting rejections too.It is best to reject him early and stop giving him hope.You did the right thing.The person would feel sad,that is unavoidable,but guys do not usually gets mad with girls over ''crushes'' problems..you must be the 1st person to take the initiative to talk to him.He would be really glad that you are not avoiding him.He,I am sure wants to be friends with you again! So Good LUCK!
2007-01-06 04:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by The Stressed.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a ultimate pal i could desire this is for confident. i'm so sorry hun :( ladies could be so merciless even once you think of they are your ultimate acquaintances! it somewhat is unhappy that hormones can take over a persons' ideas and sure somewhat frightening. flow on from her and him- neither deserve it slow or friendship! i'm extreme human beings exchange lots while boys are in touch its life. we are continuously getting to understand who's certainly there for us and who isn't. You found out this out from her in my opinion that she of course does not evaluate your emotions. How advise and espresso ought to she get? Grr immaturity! it somewhat isn't any longer common escpecially in case you have been acquaintances for see you later- yet its for the final :) some day you will seem back at this and snort and picture to your self what in the international grew to become into I thinking! it somewhat is occurred to me many situations and that i'm happy- i could no longer think of being acquaintances with 0.5 of the girls i grew to become into with in highschool/center college.
2016-11-25 23:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just open your mouth and say what's on your mind.
Communication isn't complicated, but it does sometimes require facing uncomfortable facts. the sooner you get it over with, the better your chances of patching up a friendship.
2007-01-02 13:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to whoever it was who said that it's over.
i went out with someone and realised it wasn't working, so broke up with them. then about 3 months later we got talking again and he is now my closest friend. i am so glad that i broke it off because we get along so much better now and there's no pressure. if he's decent and care about you enough, it should be fine. just reassure him that you care about him, but it's more platonic than romantic. i know it's a cliche, but cliches exist for a reason.
2007-01-02 13:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Burnthebarbies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a discussion with him about both of your feelings and wants.The outcome may be good but if your wants are different from his then it's best for you both that you aren't friends anymore.It's a harsh fact.
2007-01-02 13:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Confused Teen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't want to ruin the friendship. Say that you're afraid you'll destroy a friendship that is very important to you. It will make him feel good that you value his friendship.
2007-01-02 13:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by Greg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to act as normal as possible. Whenever you could grab a chance to talk this over with him, I guess it's much better to face it.
2007-01-02 13:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by maggotier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel and make things clear about if you are more than friends or not, return his calls if h does call
2007-01-02 13:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by desirae g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋