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I am in ninth grade and i have been friends with this one girl since the 1st grade. me and her share the same friends and we hang out with each other all the time in school, well, at least until now. she has a boyfriend and i don't have a girlfriend. she has been going out with him for a year now. she kind of starts to ignoe me now. she doesn't talk to me a lot and most of the time just acts like im not even there. when we're walking with each other in the halls and she sees her bf, she acts like im just a stranger walking by and i don't exist to her. i don't get it. it wasn't until they hit their one year mark of going out that this started to happen. i just don't get it, is there anything i can do to get our friendship back to the way it was or what can explain all of this? -thanks-

2007-01-02 12:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by tigert92 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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tell her to stop being a jerk and talk to you and if her bf has a problem with it then he's very insecere and she shouldn't be dating him cause it will lead to bad things.

2007-01-02 12:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by fr3dmownsd3tny 2 · 0 0

She is growing up and away from your friendship. She has something else to occupy her mind . She feels she has matured and now doesn't need your friendship. I don't think I would waste anymore time on her.
As far as her bf. She probably doesn't want him to see that she is talking to another guy her age, especially if he is older. She is insecure and afraid to be who she really is. She is trying to impress him and doesn't want the grade school friend anymore.
It is over bud, and she isn't interested in pursuing your friendship..She has gone on to the next stage in her life....boyfriends........not friends that are boys........

2007-01-02 20:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0 0

She's just in over her head over having a boyfriend for a year. I did that, too. She's just excited about having a boyfriend. She might be afraid that her boyfriend will dump her if he sees her hanging out with you too much. She's just a little paranoid and doesn't want to lose her boyfriend. Just tell her how you feel, but don't hurt her feelings or make her mad, that would really ruin your friendship Good luck!!

2007-01-02 20:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Linn 3 · 0 0

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