so we've been having on and off looks at each other but, i know every one says befriend the guy and stuff but its hard. i just want things to fly in place, but i know there must be some way to get a guy's attention. i just dont know how so please comment this and tell me how to get him i want to look fresh and pretty :)
2007-01-02 12:38:34 · 12 answers · asked by sarah B. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be confident,and go up and start talking to him.Just be yourself! Good Luck!!! :)
2007-01-02 12:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the feeling the sort where you guys gaze at each other for the infamous 'longer than usual' periods of time ? And yet you guys dont know each other strong enough to make decent conversation and if you do try it gets awkward?
If so im in the same boat. People tell me to ask her out or to befriend her but its so difficult when normally under any other condition we would just be strangers in the crowd!
In a boys view, i suggest just showing up wherever he may be and having small talk, he won't mind at all ! Heck i'd be so happy if that would happen to me, its not embarassing when he doesnt get embarassed by your actions after all.
Update me on this? i need some views on this too.
2007-01-02 20:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a mutual friend both of you know? That person can help.
Maybe you can prompt him to make the first move. If he looks at you try to smile back.
If all fails u can alwaes start by sending him anonymous love letters :p
2007-01-02 20:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by bronson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since your already conspiring to meet him I would say just introduce yourself when you see him. If his friend's are around him then wait and then maybe even pass him a note with your e-mail or phone number on it telling him your name and such. Don't be afraid. Fear get's in the way of everything. Be yourself and if he's exchanging glances with you then he's probably just as nervous. '-)
2007-01-02 20:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is so funny. i feel the same way. So first keep looking. play hard to get. let him notice that your playing hard to get. Be loud when hes around, so he notices your voise. i mtrying that. then once you get him pulled in, ask if he likes you or wtvr. good luck, wish you all the best...
~me
2007-01-02 20:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Avital 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm tired of telling girls they really just need to be themselves!!! You shouldn't have to try to be noticed. If it's a guy that you could possibly have a future with, he'll like you for who you are, not who you are trying to be.
2007-01-02 20:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by hockey_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with saying hi to him and then go with the flow after that.
2007-01-02 20:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt more with him smile make eye contact,compliment him,try to like or show interest him even if your not interested in what he likes when all else fails throw yourself at his feet and pledge your undieing love to him!!!
2007-01-02 20:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a paper airplane to the head...
just kidding...flirt, flirt and flirt. There is no coward's way to do it.
2007-01-02 20:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk to him.
2007-01-02 20:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋