my best friends boyfriend wont let down that i said i would give him a ********. he for some strange reason thinks that we could mess around and nothing bad would happen as a result. could we mess around and nothing ever happen to my friendship and my feels towards her boyfriend? i don't know if i should do anything, help me completely chose between doing it and not doing it?
2007-01-02 12:29:58 · 29 answers · asked by Hannah Lynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what kind of best friend are you if you're going around offering stuff to your "best friends" boyfriend.
rethink the friendship, you're obviously not a good friend.
2007-01-02 12:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A best friend would never do anything to hurt or jeopardize a friendship. What are you thinking? Why do you want to give bj's anyway?
It is time you grow up and get real.
First, you don't go around offering a service to people or they will think you are easy and cheap. I think you are hanging with the wrong kind of people. I find what you are asking simply atrocious.
If you want to practice , get a banana, it is safer and at least you won't be playing with people's feelings.
Secondly, you need to find something better to do with your time.
Why would you develop feeling for someone who you give bj's to.
You develop a relationship by getting to know one another by dating, sharing fun and activities and doing things together.
Sex doesn't give you a loving relationship, it only is sex, no matter how you try to sugar coat it or make it be something else.
You had better re-examine your morals my girl and think before you speak.
2007-01-02 20:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. How would you feel if it was your boyfriend, and your best friend did that? The fact that he keeps pressing the issue with you shows he isn't trustworthy, and you can bet that during their next big fight it will come up.
He obviously doesn't value you enough as a person to be with you, or else he would be. What he apparently values is his own pleasure, whether it's you giving it to him, or her.
You'll screw over your friendship, you'll end up feeling cheap, and you'll never end up as his GF. Instead, you get to be the woman on the side. Do you really think that's all you're worth?
No, me neither. Tell him he should take up yoga, then he can do it himself.
2007-01-02 20:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by fairygothmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is such a difficult choice for you, I would have to question how good of a friend you are. Of course it's going to mess up your friendship! Why would you even consider this? If they break up sometime, MAYBE you could get something going. But to do this now would be a huge betrayal.
2007-01-02 20:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by milomax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to be known as the girl who can't get her own guy and has to go after her best friends guy then go for it. personally I never did or would do this to a friend. He is a loser and don't get caught with your pants down, literally.
2007-01-02 20:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by rachdezigns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not sure what ******** is but, it sounds as if you brought this on.
You're the one that's going to have to end it.
He thinks you can mess around because you are sending him those signals
2007-01-02 20:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shut your mouth and cross your legs!!!
No morals, no values.... you will go nowhere and be nothing if that is how you are.
OK, NOW.... put yourself in your best friends shoes and think real hard. Is that how you want your best friend to treat you?
2007-01-02 20:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You'll have it on your conscience forever, and if that guy is willing to cheat on your best friend - do you really want him? You should probably come forward with your best friend; it's good that you haven't done anything yet, it shows that you (unlike her boyfriend) do care about your best friend.
2007-01-02 20:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by walkingonsunshine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt have said anything. Left him alone. He isnt yours he is your friends right? In other words, let it go and forget it about it. Losing your friend to this is the worst thing you could do.
2007-01-02 20:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mickey 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DONT DO IT. guys r jerks hell probably go around telling other people what i SL*T u r.i did something like that once
2007-01-02 20:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Meditator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋