how to gain one more chance at gaining reputation?

Question

at school. I am a freshman in high school. I have lot of friends but very few of my friends have any of my classes. All the people in my class hate me because they think I am annoying. I feel that this is a rumor is and has been passed around to all my classmates. When ever I try to talk to anyone, they either tell me off or ignore. I used to wonder why things were like this until I figured that ppl thought i was annoying. I dont know how to fix this problem. I want my classmates to like me, unfortunately barley do. Although I have no trouble with friends that arent in my class, I barly get to talk to them. I try to talk to my class mates, but no one listens. i have no clue what to do. i have talked to parents, counsler, and a friend but they all told me to ignore it. i have but im not gaining any good. all i want is for them to talk to me. What could I do to talk to them and understand how i bother them? i need to talk to ppl on messengers so plz give me ur screen name. and asertt

Answer 1

im going to give you some key words
sales
rapport building
relationships
seduction
charisma
art of conversation
skill of conversation
influence
Nuro Linguistic programming
how to make friends
schoomzing

Its up to you to go to the library and search them out on the internet.

Keep all your interactions, positive, never criticise people or ever point out bad things or things that might be wrong.

Build people up look for every opportunity to complement people, notice something about them that is above avererage or ideal, and tell them. Don't get excited or anything like that just tell them very nonchelantly.

Never appologize for social situations.

You can also watch what "popular people" do. I dont mean the popular kids at school, i mean comunity leaders, maybe actors on screen when they are very successful with people.

Tone down your sense of humor energy level ect, until you get a good handle on what will gain you rapport with people.

Goodluck!

Answer 2

ok. u gotta ask ur friend why u r annoying. and tell them that u know it might be mean, but it will help u a lot. only the ppl closest to u could tell u.

Answer 3

ok....reread what you wrote.
you are pushy and needy .
I dont know where to start.
You need to show some strength in your personality. Play basketball on a team or some kind of team sport.
pushy, needy, clingy and whiney are not the same as assertive.... you will make, friends if you stand up to yourself.
Play as hard as you can.Learn from others and
for Cryin'Out Loud quit feeling sorry for yourself or I swear I
will
call the Wa-a-a-a-H-H-a-ambulance myself!!!
and don't e-mail me.