Ladies, Does size matter?

Question

I would only like the answers from the ladies, because i know this is so taboo in the US that guys need to be hung like a bear. I am about average 5 1/2 inches and wondered is it the thickness or length or the whole way you use it?? I seriously considered surgery to lengthen it. Thanks.

Answer 1

I would have to say that thickness would be better than length; however, it really doesn't matter. Besides, 5 1/2 is normal.

Answer 2

For me, size matters a LOT. Much below 4 inches and it isn't that exciting. Much beyond 6-7, and you can "bottom out" i.e. hit the cervix and that hurts. Thickness is probably more important though. I do Kegels everyday so I am not "loose" but the feeling a fullness contributes greatly to my ability to orgasm. And lastly, technique is VERY important. There's a lot more involved than just shoving it in and going in and out. I would say your 5.5 is fine as long as you aren't a pencil. The best thing to do is ask your lady what she likes or let her show you how she likes it.

Answer 3

size doesnt really matter all too much, its really how you use it. honestly! you just have to learn to use what you have, if you are smaller try positions that make you go deeper, doggie, girl on top etc. if you are larger you might want to consider positions that arent as deep, spooning, missionary etc. and also think about this...you siad you are about average which is totally fine but you wanted to lengthen it. well next time you think about making yourself really big or long or whatever lol jsut know that big is absolutly NOT always better. i was with a guy who was 8+ inches, and wow...it was fun but it was so limiting on what we could do because it would just end up hurting in the end. plus going down was so difficult! now im with a guy whos just over average and ive never had better sex in my life.

Answer 4

Ms. Maple here: Size only matters at the extremes. Under 2" might be a problem. Over 8" is certainly a problem for most women - it hurts! Anything in the normal range is just fine. You'll learn to use it to good advantage just as soon as you really love someone and want to please her. You're an ideal size. Quit measuring. Talking about size is boooooorrrring to women. Learn to be an all-over interesting person instead of wasting your time using a ruler on your equipment, and women will adore you.

Answer 5

It doesn't matter enough to physically alter yourself. Ouch!! You should be far more concerned with entertaining your ladies with wit, charm, a sense of humor, passion, compliments, personality, etc. That is what matters. Sex between two people who have a strong connection (love or lust) is better no matter what size your penis is. Everytime I think I'm in love I am sure he has the best feeling dick in the world. So, pleasure her with romance and passion and she'll want it daily---all 51/2 inches!!

Answer 6

You're normal. Men spend too much time worrying about their penis and not enough learning about what actually gets the majority of women off, and thats stimulating her clitoris. Thats the only thing that works for me and for most women I know. I don't like the stimulation aspect of sex as much and to be honest it is painful if someone is on the larger side.

Answer 7

No size does not matter. I had my first orgasm with a not well endowed uncircumcised male. He was able to hit me in all the right spots.

Size does not matter one bit its the "motion in the ocean" that matters, if you know what I mean. It's all about penetration and stimulating the right parts,

Answer 8

thickness is more important than the length...and how you use it makes all the difference...if you know how to use your tongue as well,you've got it made!!

Answer 9

TO SOME IT DOSE BUT MOST IT DOSE NOT MATTER AT ALL THEY LIKE FORPLAY AND A GOOD LICKEN BETTER

Answer 10

no,im more interested in what your'e like and how you treat me,love me etc..