strict parents?

Question

my parents are pretty strict with boys. i mean i could talk to them on the phone but im not allowed to date them. can you give me any advice on how i can talk them into letting me have one

oh yeah im 13

Answer 1

just a guess but your probably under 14. most likely 11 or 12. your too young for boys and dating play with your baby dolls til your 16

Answer 2

Boys will only hurt you at this age when they only want sex and think of you as just a hole. You don't need them. I was a teenage girl about 16 or 17 when I went to hang out with my little brother's baseball team at a golf course. No parents were there and I was kind of a "chaperone". I could not BELIEVE the filth that came out of the mouths of 11 and 12 year olds. They may look like innocent little boys but their minds were in the gutter, and said some really raunchy things about girls. They obviously didn't think of girls as people, but as an object. I was just a teen but I was shocked. They looked like all american good boys, but they were absolutely nasty especially when their parents weren't around to hear. I was very skeptical about boys after that, and on my guard. Wait until you're at least in college to start dating, and don't let any guy touch you! I'm with your parents on this one, it's just too risky at this age.

Answer 3

Right now, sweetie; I think your parents have are great to be strict on this issue especially since you're only thirteen years old. There are lots of dangers out here in society, especially today including pedophiles, older men who treat kids horrible, and then there are boys who try to have sex or even rape kids your age. I mean, it's sad and your parents are trying to protect you. You also need to thank your parents for protecting you because not many kids have this, especially today. There are a lot of things that come along with sex that aren't pleasing, too.

Answer 4

13 is young for a serious relationship. At this age people swap BF or GF like they change socks. You have to show your parents that you can make good choices and they can trust you. My daughter came to me and suggested that she and a group of people were going to the movies together and one of them was her "BF", she wanted to go. I drove her dropped her off and showed up early to make sure everything was okay. Everything went fine and this became something that everyone liked to do often. Or if this doesn't fly with them, ask them to "double date" with you (they can sit in the back, the very back lol). They don't need to sit with you, but if they are there they may feel better and see how things are.

Answer 5

You are too young to date. I would not allow my boys to date at your age. Wait for a few years. Nothing is wrong with dating at the age of 16. Sounds like your parents are fair to me.

Answer 6

13 is way to young to date! I wasn't allowed to date until 15 and then it was my parents picking me up and dropping me off. I couldn't get into a car with a guy until I was 16. Hold your horses. You have plenty of time.

Answer 7

Its hard to be a teenager!!!!!....such a big world out there..if only not for parents to be the spoilsports...but please believe me when i say that you are still only a mini mini adult and need to behave like one....look to the future and i bet you will appreciate your parents for what they are now (however unfair they seem to be in your mini adult eyes right now).they care for you and want only the best for you..maybe get your dad to come With you on your date until you are a maybe 15?

Answer 8

Arrange with a boy to meet at a mutual friend's house. Tell you parents it will be only girls there.

Answer 9

how old r u? some parents wont let because of ur age, if ur not a teenager it would make since

Answer 10

Your parents aren't strict they are just trying to protect you. *Alacransita*