Three years ago, I met a seductive Scorpio and I fell in love with her in a very short time. Unbeknown to me (in the beginning) she still had unresolved feelings for a former boyfriend. I was the chump, but over time she became very dependent upon me and claimed to love me "as a friend" we were much more than friends....the sex was awesome! Now, we have parted ways and I'm with a very loving Gemini. Problem is, I can't seem to get the Scorpio out of my mind. Any solutions or am I just going to be tormented emotionally for the rest of my life? Any advice would be appreciated.
2007-01-02 10:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by rocktheleo 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Hey! Try thinking about all the things you hate about her. I think that will help
2007-01-02 10:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Scorpio woman I have been in this situation. Scorpio's are very emotional, passionate people, yet we posess the ability to separate our physical and emotional feelings very well. It is always very difficult to cut ties with previous boyfriends and takes a long time to close the door on all those emotions. There always seems to be someone waiting in the wings to pick up the pieces, the "chump" as you like to call yourself. To this scorpio girl you probably were nothing more than a friend, sure the sex was probably some of the best you will ever have, but for her there was not emotional attachment in the sex. It was purely a physical hunger that needed to be fed. Trust me, this we are very good at.
The fact that you can't get this girl out of your head says to me that you are now doing to your current gf what the scorpio did to you. Getting involved whilst still having unresolved feelings. I don't know that it will torment you all your life, but almost guaranteed there will be times when you will think about her, possibly even miss the fire you two once had. Scorpio's have a way of leaving footprints everywhere they go.
You need to let it all go. Concentrate on making this new r'ship work, and revel in the gentleness of Gemini, and don't take her for granted.
2007-01-02 12:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by loza500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn two very hard spiritual lessons here
One is to learn "Detachment"
Two is to learn to "Let go"
Try putting all those wasted thoughts into the new love of your life.
Leo With Scorpio: 5/10
Leo With Gemini: 8/10
This combination will soon find out that they are naturally made for each other. On the surface there is great mutual attraction for both signs, and deeper down, the feeling grows stronger. Both are naturally attracted to glamour, flattery and the world of good fellowship, both will have this in common. Leo will blend well with Gemini in all aspects including the bedroom. There is good reason to be optimistic about this pairing, if Leo can understand that Gemini won't always be around to give them the attention they thrive on. Gemini will need to understand Leo's need to run the world, but all in all this is a very good combination of air and fire.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-01-02 11:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hehehe... good luck with that, bro!
I'm all about putting the past behind you, but Scorpio women just have a knack for leaving a huge impression in your mind. Although, you're with a Gemini, dude! I mean, with you being a Leo, that's great! Take her to a party, give her a drink, then stand back and watch her mingle. If you're good to her, she'll be telling everyone how great you are, and stroke your ego like a kitten. You like your ego stroked? Don't you, Leo?
2007-01-05 15:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing with someone I met, too, so I can sympathize with you here! Even if Scorpio & Leo supposidly are not supposed to get along, you're chinese signs were probably compatable. Add that to the Scorp's rep for being a slut in bed and there is the problem. This new woman can't compare to the bedroom antics of Scorpio and you'll always be comparing the two. Maybe it's time you started looking for someone who CAN measure up? This is not fair to your current partner. ALso know that Scorpios are rumored to not be that faithful anyway. You were nothing more than a fling and she probably put YOU out of her mind a long time ago.
2007-01-02 14:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Listen to me Scarlett O'hara, Ashley Wilks is not for you. Yep I'm using the GWTW analogy here for a reason. She was sooo in love with something that she could not have that she refused the greatest love of her life and threw it away with both hands. Are you willing to sacrifice a love for something that simply only exists in your mind. Think about it. You'll get over her in time.
2007-01-02 13:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by LunaFaye 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well isn't the Gemini good in bed too? Why don't you do it more often with her and spice things up, you will be able to forget the past if the present is just as delicious.
2007-01-02 11:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years ago? Man, don't tell the new woman. Live your life. The past has passed.
2007-01-02 11:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem. He wont get out of my head either! Looks like you have to deal with like i am altough it is literally driving me insane!!! good luck
2007-01-03 06:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋