Why do adults say kids who are sexually active are trying to grow up fast? We are just having fun.?

Question

being a kid who is sexually active doesn't mean you are trying to grow up fast. you are just doing what feels good.

If you use a condom then you won't get pregnant.

Answer 1

You know, I kinda agree with you there. I know adults are looking out for our best interests and all, but personally, I think that they should just live their own lives and stop butting in. You know? But the important thing is to just stay safe and stay smart about your decesions, they will affect you in the future. :)

Answer 2

Condoms can break you know. And parents are right. I think it has to do with when teen girls get pregnant most of them abort their babies and the teen boys run out on them. And the teens don't want to take responsibility for their actions namely having unprotected sex which results in a baby being born(if it's lucky) and maybe some STDS. Condoms are not always effective don't forget that. And I agree with parents saying when teens who are sexually active are trying to grow up too fast instead of just being kids. And true sex feels good but it should only be done by kids who are responsible enough and mature enough to deal with the consequences of having unprotected or protected sex which comes with having babies.

Answer 3

First of all, a condom decreases the chances of getting pregnant, if it breaks, your screwed. Second of all, if all we did was what feels good, the entire world would lack responsibilty. And ya know what happens when you lack responsibility? You have people who can't function like a normal person, teens giving birth to babies, everyone has an STD, and life is ultimitly chaos. Having sex as a kid is being irrisponsible, because i truly believe kids having sex on their own will know what they are doing, and they should know better. When you are sexualy active, you have gotta be able to take whatever comes without taking the easy way out, if you get pregnant, don't get an abortion just cause you don't want it, don't start feeling sorry for yourself when you get AIDS. Take your punishment, and learn the error of your ways.

Answer 4

Uh--you sound like you are on the way to growing up fast (i.e, being a parent) if you seriously think you can't get pregnant while using a condom........

But to answer your question, they say that b/c if you have sex, you are likely to end up being a parent, hence, being grown up, because then being a kid yourself is not an option. Even if you choose adoption or abortion, the decisions you make once a girl gets pregnant are very grown-up choices and you will never feel like a 'kid' again, I can promise you that.

Answer 5

Your the type of teen why adults say it.

I lost my virginity young, at the age of 15. But I atleast did it out of love, not because I was off having fun. I'm almost 18 now and I've been with 2 people in my life, the 2nd whom i'm still with and love deeply and can see myself marrying. Some teens don't run around and treat sex like it's nothing. I would never lay down with someone unless I was completely in love with them, I don't even get teens who can have one night stands or just sleep with there boyfriends that they hardly even know.

But anyways you say your doing it just because you feel good. Wait until your truly in love, that's the best, the deep connection you have with someone is what feels good during sex; you're confident, it's beautiful, and you know he's not going to leave you afterwards, it's the best feeling. :)

P.S. Condoms can break, spill, leak, etc. I've had pregnancy scares with them(one broke, one spilled, one time he took it off wrong :/) So i've had all of these happen. If you still plan on having sex, atleast get on some BC like the pill, or the shot if you can't remember things on a daily basis. And if you do get on the pill you still need to have the guy wear a condom, pills are not 100% effective, and don't protect against std's.

Answer 6

You obviously are very young. Being sexually active isn't just "doing what feels good". If you look at some of the posts on answers, you'll see there are a lot of stupid people out there who are "doing what feels good" and are ending up in a lot of trouble (pregnancy, std's...) If this is your outlook, you need to find some other hobbies and grow up a little. Being sexually active is not a joke.

Answer 7

it wont be fun when you have to go to a clinic and get medicine for an std. having to deal with the pain and discomfort of what a std can do for you down there and in your mouth if you do oral things. its a life time change and

condoms dont always protect.

what feels good, what ever happen to hanging out laughing, flirting, kissing at the movies, and only kissing, the excitement of waitting

Answer 8

Using a condom doesn't always work. You could use it wrong, it could break, stuff could drip out of the bottom, and many other things. The only way to not have a kid is to not have sex at all. Period.

Answer 9

I beg your pardon? Condoms can actually break and you might getpregnant.It only takes a little bit of sperm.Sexual pleasure was designed for marriage and in a loving relationship. Teenage years are meant for having fun yes with friends and study.

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