My mother is also dictating about our son. And she thinks we shouldn't be together. Do you think I should move in? Yes or no and why?
2007-01-02 10:30:14 · 5 answers · asked by LILY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well there is no point in telling you that your really young to have a baby because you already have one.
You didn't give much information on the relationship but since your considering moving in with him I am going to ASSUME that its a stable relationship. With that said, you need to think of your baby. What will be a better situation for your baby, living with your parents or living with your boyfriend? Will you be able to handle taking care of the house/apartment AND the baby at the same time? Will you work or go to school? Does he make enough money to support the baby, you and himself? These are all things that have to be thought out before you decide to move in with your boyfriend.
I do want to say that I think it is great that your boyfriend has stuck with you and wants to be a part of the child's life. I have to give him that.
Hope you make the right choice. No-one can know what is best for you and your new family but you. Good luck!
I will keep you in my thoughts.
2007-01-02 11:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Positively Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is so young to have a baby. There are a couple questions you need to ask yourself. Do you think you and your bf are compatible enough to eventually get married and create a stable home life for the baby? If so, maybe you should give it a shot, although living with him will be a huge transition, you'll have to take care of the baby and the home all by yourself, all the dishes, laundry, cleaning, cooking, most of that will fall on your shoulders, do you think you can handle that? Also, what about your education/career. One day you might have to support yourself and the baby, so you need to think about how either decision plays out on that way. Love is not enough, love does not conquer all, love is just an emotion, but you need to think logically about this huge decision. good luck!
2007-01-02 18:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go for it. If you guys are happy together then why not??
2007-01-02 22:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by angel01182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are way to young even to have a baby.
2007-01-02 18:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Gabrielle K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... sure?
why are you asking this on here.
2007-01-02 18:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by sexxxxxxy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋