Am I really that weird?

Question

I feel like I'm the freakiest 13-year-old girl in the world and feel adnormal. I'm like 5'3", weigh 138 pounds, and have a bigger chest and butt than the average. But the thing is, I'm not fat. I'm actually skinnier than a lot of girls who are 20-30 pounds less than me. I am stronger than them too and do work out but wat ever I do I still am big on both sides. I really think something's wrong with me :( but I'm not sure. That's why I came here. I asked my mom but she said no I just have more of a woman's body than a girls. Thanks mom that helped alot (not really). I'm still a kid! Ne way I really need to know, from what you have heard, am I really that ad normal??? Thanks.

Answer 1

Okay, you think that you're freaky and weird? Hello? Have you seen your best friend Blue? She's so much more freaky and weird. She's 14-years-old, 4'11'' (NOT EVEN 5FT!!), 109lbs, is the one of the shortest people in her school, is asian, hates milk, acts like a boy, screams "ATTACK OF THE FLYING MONKEYS!!", runs every where like an idiot, thinks that she's an idiot, and is so crazy that her boyfriend even admits it. Oly, you are weird. Everyone is weird. If there wasn't a weird person in this world then they're....they're.... they're just plain out of this world. You of course are weird because everyone is not the same and everyone is weird to someone. That's how people are in this world. If they call you fat, ugly, and stupid, then they are blind and they will get a can full of hurt from me. I'm there for you and I always will be. And don't forget that I am the weirdest person that you will ever know so just hang out with me so that you can feel better ok? Well.... if anything call me and I will just yell at you like the sister that I never had okay? ttyl because I got to go to your house.

Answer 2

You're not weird at all. I'm 36 and when I was 13 I was one of the girls on the opposite end of the line. But to be fair, I still have a little chest, even though my hips and rear have gotten bigger (that happens after you have 4 kids) To put it in perspective, I'm 5'3", weigh 131lbs, am a B cup and wear a size 8 jeans. You might grow another couple of inches in the next few years but will be done with all of this when some of those other girls are just starting to develop. Don't worry so much about it. Just remember that nobody is exactly the same and God made you the beautiful young lady that you are. And don't let the boys freak you out either. Most of them aren't going to start puberty for at least another couple of years. They just don't get it.

Answer 3

You are a teenager. Teenagers go though lots of changes like getting breasts and having all kinds of parts changing. Just means you are becoming a woman. That is not to say you are a woman. You are in the process of becoming a woman. You are still a kid but you are getting there. Think about it this way a Caterpillar in a cocoon is neither a Caterpillar or a butterfly. That is where you are. You're kind of going through a fast bunch of changes and it gets weird and it is normal to feel everything you are feeling but
Listen to me THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! YOU ARE NOT WEIRD. YOU ARE A TEENAGER!!!! Be happy about it. Good luck to you and tell your mom she's right!
hate to admit it but parents know more than we think they do when we're teens. They seem so stupid to us but when we're around 20-25 most of us realize how smart they actually are! Good luck! Bye.

Answer 4

Look im 12 yrs old and im 5'6 and i weigh 123 lbs i have no chest you could see my bones and im not complaining i have a nice figure but people think im sixteen and it bugs me and it means evry one is unique some are skinnier than others some are big bonened or some are just more developed than others is not freaky you have a bigger or more of a womans body but you are not wierd.

Answer 5

I was the same way, except I was about 12 and 5'6". I got A LOT of attention from guys and the girls hated me. But by high school, everyone caught up to me. I still had more *** then them though.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

your not weird, actually guys most likel think your hot and are too chicken too admit it...as most 13 yr old boys are. i would seriously be happy if i had a big chest and some junk in the trunk. you'll be happy about those when you're older. ; )

Answer 8

Yeah, everyone else will catch up to you. You'll have extra time to get comfortable with your womenly body and that is definitly going to work to your advantage, so don't worry. I was the same way.

Answer 9

Everyone is different and people come in all shapes and sizes. The girls your age will catch up to you in a few years, so don't worry...there is nothing weird about you :)

Answer 10

you're just developing faster than others around you. no big deal, but you'll realize that when you're older, you just have to put up with it for the time being.