I met my gf in high school she was a sophomore and I was a senior.We became friends with potential to becoming more but circumstances prevented it.Now she’s a senior and im a sophomore in college and began speaking to each other about 8 months ago and we are currently in a relationship.Everything has gone pretty smooth until recently for we driven apart and have not communicated. Plenty of that falls upon me. Two days ago she asked for a break. She said I was not communicating and she felt as she was in a relationship by herself.Then said she still likes me but feels overwhelmed and she has some feelings towards me that she most overcome or remove,finishing off by giving me a kiss and a hug,anyhow, a day after the break was new years and I didn’t receive a call,so I wrote a text and got a respond an hour later.Yet now I don’t know what’s going in her mind and our 8 months is coming up in two days. So my question is what should I do? im thinking of breaking up should I is it right?
2007-01-02 10:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by fdiaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like the two of you have grown apart and aren't as interested in each other as you once were. It happens. If you feel you don't want to continue the relationship as it is now, talk to your girlfriend. Tell her how you feel, tell her what your concerns are, tell her that you realize you haven't been communicating very well lately. Then ask her where things stand. The two of you need to discuss your relationship and whether it should continue. This will give you both the chance to be honest with each other and perhaps part amicably rather than having one of you wondering and angry at being left in an underhanded way. Good luck!
2007-01-02 10:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she is scouting a possible upgrade, its what they do. She needs the time to research his job, earnings, and study him upclose. If they hit it off and it is more profitable for her to be with him, she will drop you like a balloon full of lava. If she comes back, then you are still the better catch. But I would recomend a pregnancy and blood test...just in case. But at this point, 8 months, its time to find another if she's taking so long to text. Maybe she desn't want to text in front of the new guy.
2007-01-02 18:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by vaughndhume 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to already be over with, she wanted a break, but wants to keep u there just in case it doesn't work out with her and her new boyfriend. she has already left the relationship for whatever her reasons are, she needs a break to see if she really cares for this someone else, but not being sure she tells u it is just a break from the relationship.
2007-01-02 18:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to make a move or move on .Did she expect an
engagement ring for Christmas?
Are you fooling around with someone else ?
I think she is tired of being strung along .
2007-01-02 18:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre a sophomore in college??? grow up. first, she wants someone else. second, with all the women around college, what are you doing wasting time on one that obviously wants someone else. yes break up
2007-01-02 18:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by cheezie72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look FDIAZ I hate to tell u but she probably meant that she wanted to see less of u and in the future you might get back together when she said "WE NEED A BREAK" .Don't break up with her just wait a little and take some time for yourself . She still likes u, from wat she said u can tell.Just lay low for a while and see wat happens.
GOOD LUCK BABY NANA.
2007-01-02 18:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakup! A break is when she feels tired of you, and does not want to hear from you. It could also mean that she's seeing someone else, and doesn't want you to know.
2007-01-02 18:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your relationship is over already , sorry you'll find another I'm sure . Good luck to you !
2007-01-02 18:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her the only reason girls need breaks is becoz she is seeing someone else or she wants to see someone else i hate it when girls do that to guys it pisses me off its so rude so if i were you get rid of her before she definetly gets rid of you dont let her break your heart
2007-01-02 18:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by kizza005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep your distance from her a bit,and maybe everything will go back to normal in few days or weeks that you wont see each other
2007-01-02 18:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋