2007-01-02 10:03:47 · 4 answers · asked by lou l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It would help if I knew your relationship status.
Also, are you deep in debt & has your credit rating been affected as a result?
In any case, it's best to come clean now. Just tell your bf/hubby, "I have a problem with spending or managing money" or words to that effect.
You may run the risk of driving him away, but it's still better than hiding it & having it come to light later on. On the other hand, if he really loves you, I'm hoping that he's willing to help you with this, even if it means making you cut up any credit cards & stick to a budget.
Here are some links to sites that might help.
Good luck & God bless.
2007-01-02 10:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him, and then ask him not to let you have HIS credit card. If you spend all your money, that is up to you. But do not spend other's money - that is despicable.
BUT YOU must TELL HIM, so he can back out of the relationship if he wants to.
Maybe he can help with the problem? Not too likely, but you gotta tell him. Only FAIR.
2007-01-02 18:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you spend on wants before you pay your bills. Then it is a problem.
2007-01-02 18:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five words: I have a spending problem
BE HONEST - you can't go wrong with the truth!
2007-01-02 18:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋