2007-01-02 09:48:33 · 15 answers · asked by cheyenne h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell the stupid @ss to shut the f@ck up! If she doesn't trust her boyfreind, then she will never have a relationship that will last with anyone. The problem lies with her, not you, or your male friend! So be you, let him be him. If decides to remain a stupid jealous person, So be it! Have a nice day!
2007-01-02 09:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by niceguy_thats_me2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like your friend has some trust issues either toward you or her boyfriend. maybe she is worried that you and her boyfriend may get too close and you may take him from her. unfortunately there are a lot of females in today's society who feel that way and it is just sad. so maybe talking to your friend is the best bet. see what is her reason for not wanting you and her boyfriend to communicate with each other. from there is it up to you which friendship you feel is more important. you can either honor her wishes or not.
2007-01-02 18:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by SWTCHKS925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me something or someone has caused her to become insecure - have the two of you had this kinda conflict before ? You really need to have a one on one - alone - talk,and find out what the deal really is ,because if she,denies your friendship with the guy,It will only back fire on her, in the long run !! Good-Luck to you - Hopefully her fear's will pass and the three of you can have a neat friendship !! --- Pattijo
2007-01-02 18:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only choice that you have is to choose between your girlfriend and her boyfriend, it is up to you. Remember though, that the friendship of a girl toward a boy is not of the same level as the friendship of a girl toward another girl. Inevitably in the long run, the friendship of a girl toward a boy will implicate a sexual attraction.
2007-01-02 17:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is jealous. Are you giving her a reason to be? If she really is your friend, you should keep your conversations with her bf very short. Tell him why you are keeping the conversations short, out of respect for your friend. If you can't do that, you have to decide whose friendship you value more, hers or his.
2007-01-02 17:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Capt. Obvious 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would personally continue to be friends with both parties involved....just make sure that you do not keep it secret from her! Obviously there is some underlying problem in her security withing that relationship if she will not "let" you talk to him!
2007-01-02 17:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats a hard situation, what I would do is tell her "I dont like him like u do, I am his friend, im not gonna steal him!!!" and if shes mad, shes mad for no reason, but if you and him are good friends, be friends and talk to him after u tell her that. thats what I would do
hope i helped.
kaycee
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2007-01-02 17:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Answer Gurl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him anyway! If your "friend" is telling you not to talk to him then maybe shes not really your friend. My advice talk to him!
2007-01-02 17:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by kk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the problem is not with you and him its with her and her boy friend if she cant trust him then that ain't going to work she must trust him and that's that. Talking to girls is normal she must understand that you guys are friends and you want to talk to him and that you wont change your friendship just bec they are together
2007-01-02 17:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to talk to you then talk to him anyway. She's too possessive. If she doesn't like it she can leave him. Seems like there will be trouble no matter what.
2007-01-02 17:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋