my girlfriend decided to cancel on me on new years to go out with some friends. so i spent new years with some of my mates. my best friend got drunk and i spent 12pm outside in the cold talking to his girlfriend. i really like her and i feel like i can talk to her. my girlfriend has stopped talking to me and wudnt even reply to the happy new year message. i cant stop thinking about my best friends girlfriend. i dont wanna hurt my best friend but i think i should tell someone how i feel. what should i do?
2007-01-02 09:45:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what i meant was, pat, that i dont wanna do something completely stupid.
2007-01-02 09:54:51 · update #1
Chris u sound like a nice person,u can't control feelings of the heart. Just tell ur friend ,it might be hard but do it.If u really like this girl tell her also.See if she likes u too. Ur not hurting ur best friend ur just following ur heart .He is a good friend and its not like u kissed his girlfriend u just like her.
As for ur girlfriend,ask her why she isn't talking to u ,if she doesn't answer, tell her that is fine with u. U did nothing wrong so why the big fuss.Don't shame her, still be friends but, if she is not talking to u wat can u do about it.
HOPE THIS WORKS FOR U
BABY NANA.
2007-01-02 10:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, best friend's girlfriend or boyfriend are out of limit.
You should know that by now.
Put that on the account of alcohol, New Year's Eve excitement and folly.
You're right not to do anything stupid.
And if you were to, make sure that you'd stopped talking to your best friend before making a move to his girl.
Because obviously you two wouldn't be best friends any more.
What's more, you'd be so consummed by guilt that I'm not sure your relationship would work.
Also, what if the feeling is hopefully not mutual at all with your girlfriend best friend.
You'll be despised by two people.
Before jumping your gun, just wait and give it a few weeks.
See if those feeling receed or if the girlfriend's attitude has changed towards you at all ever since that night.
Then, it's up to you.x
2007-01-02 18:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help how you feel about someone but try and find out whether your mates girlfriend feels the same way. Whether she does or not i'd advise that you end it with your current girlfriend because its not fair on her(even tho she isnt talking to you)
Just follow your heart.....
2007-01-02 18:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by jadey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have got to ask yourself how long have you been feeling like this, maybe you just feel like this because your girlfriend has hurt u and this other girl is listening. thats what best mates girlfriends do, if my fella's mate wanted to talk then i would listen. should could just be being nice, you are her boyfriends mate after-all. good luck.
2007-01-02 18:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by michelle g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your gf is history. Cancel you on new year's eve for friends? Blow her out man! Yr best friends gf is not quite so simple. Well it is really, do you want her or not? Best friend or girlfriend? No question is there? These things happen!
2007-01-02 18:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Split up with your girlfriend, she doesn't like you.
Leave your mates girlfriend alone, anything that is unobtainable is more attractive. And your friendship with your buddy has to mean something too.
2007-01-02 17:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Finlay S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt mean she likes you,your being a bit presumptious arent you ,saying you dont want to hurt your mate,she's probably quite happy with him ,she was only talking to her boyfriends mate like anyone would.
2007-01-02 17:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your girl friend you think she bein distant and want an explination stay away from your friends girl sort it with your mrs tell her you feel rejected and want to sort things you only feel like that bout your mates girl as she showed you some attention which your mrs hasnt for a while sort things with your mrs pal
2007-01-02 17:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by theoriginalbitch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wish her a Happy New Year in ''Your own way'' ;)
2007-01-02 19:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like your best friend wise up. Otherwise dump your girl and try it on with the girl.
2007-01-02 17:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋