What is an acceptable chore list for my 12 year old son?

Question

He needs to learn some responsibility!!

Answer 1

Take out the trash
do the dishes (wash, dry, and put away or load the dishwasher then put away)
fold laundry
walk the dog, if you have one
change cat box, if you have one
feed whatever family pets you may have
help shovel snow, if thre's snow where you l ive
help rake leaves
wash windows
clean own room to include dusting and vacuuming
picking up their things around the house and putting them where they belong
sweep kitchen floor
scrub toilet
wipe down sink and bathroom vanity

Answer 2

Take the trash and recycling out, clean up after and feed/walk any animals in the house, yard work, keep his room clean (vacuumed, clothes put away, linens changed weekly) and at least sort his laundry.

Give him an allowance based on how well and how much of his weekly chores he gets done. So if he gets $10/week allowance and only does 1/2 the chores, he gets $5.

DO NOT give him allowance or treats if he does not do his chores, because that would be rewarding negative behavior, when you want to reward the positive.

Answer 3

Age 9-12

During the pre-teen years, many children like continuity, so find some chores they like or system of organising chores that works well, and stick to it. The reward system can still work effectively for this age group, but if you're having difficulty ensuring they actually do their chores, make sure they are aware of any consequences (like losing out on a treat) that will occur if they don't complete their duties.
Helping to wash the car
Doing the washing up
Cleaning the bathroom
Helping in the garden
Chopping food for meal preparation
Putting sports kit ready to wash
Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

It depends on the size of your house, the magnitude of the task, and if other siblings are involved. I for one have a younger brother, and when we were younger, I was given chores to do at 6 and the list grew longer and more responsible as I grew older. He, on the other hand still had my mom cleaning is own room, doing is laundry, at 15. (which I've been doing on my own since 10 or younger). He doesn't do any dishes, cleaning, or yard work. So if your going to make a list, be fair, start the kids at the same age, and increase list/and responsibility with age. Make it fun if possible- (let them listen to their choice of music playing while doing it, make it a race for who gets control of TV, Choice of dinner or next family outing.) generally the chores are clean your room, doing laundry, yard work, washing car, dusting, vacuuming, window cleaning, babysitting, dish washing, setting the table, you could of course let them do just a part of the task if too young- like not doing the laundry but folding clothes or separating by family member or colors, not washing dishes but drying them/putting them away. not mowing the law, but picking up sticks, toys to make it easier... hope it helped!

Answer 5

1. His pets
2. His room
3. Family trash out
4. Own laundry
This 12 year old isn't going to stay 12 forever, but what he learns about his responsiblity will last forever. Besides, if this 12 year old has younger siblings, they'll be watching how he's treated and what he's expected to contribute to the family's well-being on a daily basis.
You're teaching this young lad how to be a functional human being should he never choose to marry and a really helpful husband if he does. The choice is yours, mom/dad. Step right up and do the right thing and you'll never regret it.

Answer 6

Basic stuff he could do is take out trash, feed pets, keep his room clean, or if he is sharing a room, he could clean his part. Also making his bed is a good habit to make. Washing the dishes, cleaning up after meals, and if you have carpet, sweeping the floor. He probably will ask about an allowance. If he makes a mess he should clean it up. If he does not, I would deduct an amount from the allowance. Hope this was helpful!! Good luck!!

Answer 7

give him chores that will prepare him for life. Make sure he knows how to take care of a pet; clean a bathroom, do dishes, take out garbage, yardwork. Teach him how to make a few different meals so he will never starve. And teach him how to do laundry and vaccuming too. When he is all grown and on his own, he will be able to take care of himself so he is not a total mess. Also, try and teach him a little bit of repairs if you can. Simple stuff like even changing lightbulbs, tightening screws, fixing squeeks, waterproofing footware. There is a site called BeJane.com and it teaches women how to do anything they need to learn in re: to houses and repairs. Make his chores things that will help him later in life. Make them educations instead of duties. He will be grateful to you for always for teaching him instead of ordering him around like a slave!

Answer 8

Kitchen dishes - empty dishwasher, organize drawers, trash, feeding animals, picking up doggie poop, vacuuming or dusting, window washing, mow lawn (my 14 yr. old has been mowing for a few years), dusting, organizing video movies, setting table for dinner, sorting & folding wash, keeping room clean! I have a 12 & 14 yr. old & they definitely have responsibilities in our home. They each get $5 per week to learn how to manage their money. Hope that helps. Happy New Year! :)

Answer 9

1) Sort his own clothes and wash them (if he can run the washer/dryer)
2) Take out the trash
3) Keep his room tidy (doesn't have to be perfect)
4) Dishes once a week (even if it's rinse and stick 'em in the dishwasher)
5) Vacuum his room when needed
One way to get him to clean his own room...insures privacy! If he doesn't do it you have to, does he want you going through all his stuff?
That's my opinion. It's what I had to do at 12/13.

Answer 10

Helping take the garbage out, sweeping the floor a few times per week, cleaning room, making bed, putting clothes away, can also help with putting towels, blankets, sheets, etc...away, maybe start to teach him how to use the washer and dryer, unloading the dishwasher