2007-01-02 09:20:26 · 21 answers · asked by me 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
"Too nice" is a euphemism for saying the man is a pathetic doormat, whiny wuss or a spineless wonder who can't or won't stand up for himself and lets other people use him and boss him around.
Of course it's not really possible to be too nice - it just sounds more polite than the truth.
2007-01-02 14:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girls who complain about nice guys should even be happy that they are being nice in the first place. Sure, needy and spineless males are quite unattractive to most and I can understand why, but complaining about someone being nice when there are clearly more hostile males out there who don't even care about your existence other than a sex toy to me is very beetleheaded indeed.
2007-01-02 11:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by friggin_express101 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Possibly Passive Aggressive. Keep one eye open that he's not using his niceness as a control measure.
For example :
Opening Doors; Nice
Treating you like a helpless child; Controlling
Respect; Nice
Patronizing; Controlling
Polite; Nice
So nice you feel guilty questioning anything he does? CONTROLLING
2007-01-03 02:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by tnridgechick64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men n "too nice"
i cant digest this one
well if a guy is acting/pretending to be too nice with u GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS something is fishy abt him
j/k
guy can be nice too
n sometimes too nice
to define a man who is too nice i would say he is caring, loving, understanding n gives u freedom to do as u like to
but also being helpful to u
i hope such species of men exist
2007-01-02 19:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love nice men and in fact have married one. If you are around women who complain about you being too nice, run away. They don't deserve you. Eventually, you will find someone who appreciates you and those other women will find mean guys to abuse them. You on the other hand will be happy and so will you lucky mate!
2007-01-02 10:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Greanwitch 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's possible for someone to be "too nice". Personally, I think if a woman complains about being treated well by her partner, she's someone who will never be truely happy.
2007-01-02 23:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thought of a man being to nice is really pleasing to me
but it probably would get boring after a while. a woman needs
someone who will stand up to her when need be, and nice when its over.
2007-01-05 21:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by jealous raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Too nice" in my experience either means someone who's gay, or someone who has a false front and fake personality. The only genuinely good person I've ever met even has his bad days.
2007-01-02 09:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by redrancherogirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person can never be "too nice" to me. If a female is telling you that, she probably likes drama and/or abuse in her life.
2007-01-02 09:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who is over-clingy, over-eager to please, and over-polite would be considered "too nice". If a guy holds a door open for a girl, that's nice. If he insists on buying her something she doesn't want, that's "too nice".
2007-01-02 09:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ask Tara 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋