could i be i lesbian?

Question

i get easily aroused by looking at naked boobs (not my own, of course). does this mean i'm lesbian (or, bisexual since i like boys)?
PLEASE don't try to convince me that it's not a bad thing or that i should accept who i am.

sorry, i just noticed the question was typed wrong. i meant, "could i be A lebian?"

Answer 1

It's a possibility but not set in stone. At this stage I'd say you're just bi-curious. The only way to know for sure is to see for yourself... so bring your cute self to a gay club and the minute you say "bi-curious" just wait for the line to form. Make sure that you're clear with the girl that you want to see if you really are into females or if it just seems enticing (no need to get hearts broken if it ends up it was a fluke, right?)

But try and be as comfortable as possible, if you're unsure you want to do it, than it won't be pleasurable. My suggestion is have a few glasses of wine first to loosen up - Remember alcohol doesn't make you do things you wouldn't do, it enable you to do things you'd do anyway just with less persuasion.

Answer 2

Well, you might be bi, but that's really hard to tell, because there's a lot more to one's sexuality than liking boobs and guys. You probably aren't lesbian since you said you like guys, but you could be bi if you like girls the same way you like guys. Is it just the boobs that do it for you, or are there other things about the feminine form?

Answer 3

Physical attraction is not all there is to a sexuality. The only way you can know whether or not you are straight or bi is whether you can have an emotional attraction to a girl. If you can, than you are bisexual. You can be straight and still be turned on by breasts.

Answer 4

why would it be such a bad thing. hey, i'm a gay man; i dont want to be but there is nothing i can do about it. so i would say that if boobs arouse you as well as men do, then you are probably bisexual. you probably lean to one side more than the other but you are what you are. you cant neccessarily change your urges, i mean you can try but its not going to make much difference. you need to own up to the fact that you could be a big rug munching tractor tosser.

Answer 5

First, definitely listen to what guitarherofairy said.

It doesn't mean you're a lesbian, especially if you still have emotional attractions to boys. If your attraction to girls surpasses being solely physical and becomes emotional, then I would say you're bi. And no matter what it turns out to be, it isn't a bad thing -- but since you asked for no one to attempt convincing you of that, I certainly won't try. Just be happy with yourself. :)

Answer 6

if you find yourself being sexually arroused by the site of naked female breasts, then yes, you have some bi tendancies..

being completely bi would also require that you have romantic interests in women too.. would you want to date a woman? would you want to cuddle and kiss another woman? would you want to have a relationship and live together with a woman?

if this is just a physical thing, then maybe you just have a curious or wild side to you..

Answer 7

Easy, find a guy with boobs! Just kidding.You're straight.

Answer 8

Perhaps....however, by your question, it's rather obvious, that you're self absorbed, and definately an attention seeker!

Answer 9

If you are sexually attracted to boys too, then I think you might be bi.

Answer 10

i think u may be bi. i love a womens body. but then i am bi
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