im honestly lonely, no friends and want people in my life as friends, and i dont mean the ones who smile in ya face and talk crap about u behind ya back. how can i make friends and be respected pls help
2007-01-02 08:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by Home Boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be nice be grateful And most of all Help each other when they are lonely
2007-01-02 08:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by ☺C☺h☺a☺r☺l☺o☺t☺t☺e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you first have to carry yourself with dignity and respect, so when people see you they know you are a force to be reckoned with and not some pushover. As far as friends, just talke to people, people who look interesting to you, people who you think might be interesting. Get a hobby or join a club, just so you can meet people. Also the clubs, bars, etc.are always a good meeting spot, because once people have had a few drinks, they tend to loosen up. Just get out there and walk with ya head held high and have a welcoming smile. All the best.
2007-01-02 08:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting self respect and friends comes from giving respect and time to people that aren;t yet your friends. Its a bit like seeds in a garden, plant lots, water lots, some will shrivel up and die, but some will grow big and strong and worth it. And hey! Don't despair, we all have times of loneliness, even the most popular! thats why hollywooders change partners as often as they change their shoes, ... doesnt work though, cos the best things take time! Dont give up... everyone else out there is as screwed up as you!... and me!
2007-01-02 08:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by askauntkt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any interests or hobbies? Join a club with like minded people, you are more likely to get along and form friendships with them. Making friends is a doddle when you're a kid isn't it but such hard work as an adult!
2007-01-02 08:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by L D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to look for a different crowd to hang with.Theres a saying you are who you hang out with. So start ascociating with with real people , educated people , get out there and try different areas of life , dont be shy and stay confident.As soon as losers start backstabbing you ,cut them off and move on till ya find the decent folk, they are out there. Stay cool. love jacks
2007-01-02 09:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jacks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, you just made yourself friends by sending out that question. It is hard to find good friends these days as people are so two faced. Just be yourself, be confident, be genuine.It always works.
Good luck.xx
You ever fancy a chat email me on powchie@yahoo.co.uk
2007-01-02 09:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Becks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is alot of hard to find true friends, people seem to be friends to me too, but their friendship doesn't mean a thing, doesn't even mean God too. self respect is to give yourself a respect, you should also find why who are not friends and why. That way you can able to determine to become friends, or not.
2007-01-02 08:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by tammuzjune 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok it shouldn't be too hard to find those kind of friends. I'm very ajustable to my friends, maybe you can hang with me and I'll find you a group of friends to hang with. I'll take good care of you homie
e-mail me sometime TigerpooFrenzzy@yahoo.com I have Yahoo IM and MSN and Myspace IM
2007-01-02 08:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should first of all be yourself amongst your "so called friends" and talk to them about the way you feel. Ask them if they really want to be your friend- and if not then why....ask them what you need to change in yourself to make yourself a better person and a better friend:]
2007-01-02 08:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi.
2007-01-02 08:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Chris cc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋