your best friend is a crazy controlling freak?! My best friend is driving me crazy! She's constantly calling me asking me what I'm doing, when my phone rings she asks me who is it, she wants to know every detail that happens between me and my boyfriend, she's jealous of all my other friends, she made a list of people she's scared they'd be more friends with me than her, she cries when I do sth wrong unintentionally, she always asks me if i'd ever leave her!!! she was sooo upset she even cried whenI didnt go out with her on MY birthday *i had to work*.
Sometimes she scares me!! I doubt her behavior is anywhere close to normal. My boyfriend is starting to get annoyed of how much she calls when we're together. I'm so very much annoyed by her but I also think she's a very good kind caring friend. I dont wanna lose her as a friend but I'd love if she'd back off a little!!
I tried telling her and she was so upset she kept crying and I didnt know what to do! btw we're both 19 year old gals.
2007-01-02 08:47:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-01-02 08:50:56 · update #1
Wow, sounds like she has borderline personality disorder, or maybe she just needs attention. Maybe this is a sign that she needs help because maybe she is feeling very lonely right now. Try talking with her. Let her know that when you are with your boyfriend, that you cannot talk to her because you want to spend some time with him. It's really sweet dear that you are concerned about her feelings, but what she does is her problem, not yours.
2007-01-02 09:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably has loads of abandonment issues. The only thing you can do is talk to her and let her know how you feel. She probably needs to go talk to someone. She will ruin any bf relationship she tries to have also so talk to her about going to see someone.
2007-01-02 16:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it will be hard but you need to sit her down and let her know that if she doesn't give you some space she will lose you completely as a friend.let her know that's its not fair to make you feel bad for having your own life away from her tell her you still want to be her friend but she cant put everything on you she is her own person.good luck honey.
2007-01-02 17:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by jnn_shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her...
let her know how you feel...
maybe then she'll back off a little...
what both of you need to do is have a good talk...but don't abandon her, she probably needs you....
2007-01-02 17:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by luvsunshine0318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋