shes been my best friend since third grade but now shes acting really weird and trying too hard to be popular...shes ok when its just us, but when thyre around shes jyst weird...help!!!
2007-01-02 08:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try telling her how you feel........see if sh means to act this way and tell her what you think she is doing wrong..........hope this helps!!!
2007-01-02 08:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by rockstaa LAUREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it's not fair she's trying to be popular and tell her that if she becomes popular then she'll lose her best friends and tell her that showing off to the popular people's never gonna work because they'll find out eventually.
I'd also say that it's not important being popular, and if she was really a good friend, she'd much rather be your friend than EVER be popular. That's just my view, anyway.
2007-01-02 08:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by xxsleepy_starxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i promise u im not lying but my friend is doing the same exact thing, i brought it up gently i said that i needed to just tell her about something rally important and that i was afraid to say it becuase it might just ruin our friendship, she said shed try to look and understand from MY perspective and i told her and she apologized and started asking me if she was really acting like a socalled "miss priss" and all and i told her. her and i have never been soo close since after i told her. now that i look at the last sentance i mean were even BETTER friends now not that were not friends any more
okay and i know this is completely none of my business but new year queen y should somebody get in trouble for seeking help??? like i said none of my business but heck i had to say it
2007-01-02 08:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried talking to her? it seems it might be peer pressure, if thats not it she is trying to be too popular and doesnt want to spoil it. I would try talking to her, but not trying to blame stuff on her just talk a little bit about it, but if shes a true friend she would understand and go back to normal, people change a lot over the years, you never know. Just talk it over is what I would say. email me or im me if that doesnt work out, and we will think of something.
-kaycee
2007-01-02 08:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Answer Gurl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is, people grow apart. you seem to be around that age where you change. if shes the type to go around looking for popularity shes not a good friend anyway. do yourself a favor and stay away from those annoying people. find GOOD friends.
2007-01-02 08:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your friend is having a hard time feeling good about herself. Just keep treating her the same, be nice, don't pay too much attention to her attention seeking behaviours, and keep telling her how important the friendship is to you, sometimes we all need just one stabiliser in this topsy turvy world, you just might be hers!
2007-01-02 08:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by askauntkt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok she needs to figure out who she'll be better off with. You and people who like her for just her, or people who are likeing her for what she's trying to do to be popular. remind her that she's not herself, and that people can take advantage of you in such a situation.
2007-01-02 08:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try really hard to outdo her. Then, make it really sarcastic and satirical and make fun of her that way. Maybe she will see the folly of her ways through seeing herself acted out by you.
2007-01-02 08:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
signs of a fake person. if she keeps it up, i think it's time that u let her go. if ur friendship survives a separation n a difference u 2 have, then u r true friends. but if u go ur way n she goes hers, then things stay that way, she's not a true friend. good luck girl!
2007-01-02 08:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend is dealing with other issues. Ask her and see what she says, but never never give up on her if you are a true friend.
2007-01-02 08:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to her ask if she is on drugs and if she says yes help her get off and if shes young well just rember this people can get on drugs any age.
2007-01-02 12:55:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋