didn't cheat on my boyfriend im two months and we only been dating for a month and mt and my baby daddy got a lil boy already
2007-01-02 08:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by confused soul 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell them. They all need to hear the truth so they can make their own choices.
2007-01-02 08:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Velken 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The truth will set you free. Sometimes the truth hurts but it's a heck of a lot better than having your child grow up and hate you for lying to him all his life. Both the daddy and your boo need to know the truth. So does your baby, most important of all.
2007-01-02 09:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by pixysnot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to tell your boyfriend the truth, cause if he can add he will figure out he is not the father. honesty is the best way to go , you need to make sure if you are going to remain with your boyfriend that he can respect your baby' father position as dad and he has rights too see the baby..
2007-01-02 09:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the baby, and tell your bf the truth. If you decide you don't want the baby, at least go through the pregnancy and put it up for adoption. Many people are on a list waiting to adopt and can't conceive themselves. Good luck to you hun!
2007-01-02 08:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, you're in uncomplicated terms sixteen. Having little ones is a duty for adults, no longer little ones. there's no thank you to sugar coat having a baby. it is stressful paintings, and all of it starts off with that valuable being pregnant try. And being pregnant is stressful paintings in itself, however the paintings in uncomplicated terms gets extra durable from there. hour of darkness feedings, 2 AM changing's, little ones crying for no reason in any respect, toddler needs interest, toddler needs to be burped, plus the would desire to prioritize your total total existence around the toddler, because of the fact as quickly as a toddler is interior the photograph, it isn't any longer approximately you and your boyfriend. it is approximately that toddler. further on that, the infinite costs of having to offer. Diapers are no longer inexpensive, neither are wipes, toddler furnishings, outfits, toys, hygiene, scientific charges (little ones have lots of imagery the 1st 3 hundred and sixty 5 days of existence), babysitting costs, formula is a killer. to place it bluntly, your boyfriends interest as a waiter won't hide virtually each and every of the charges. you're able to would desire to paintings finished time besides, yet then each and every of the money could bypass in the direction of day care. Plus you're nevertheless in intense college. And it is heavily stressful, if no longer impossible to locate a stable paying interest with out intense college degree. no longer to show college. you would be putting your total total existence on carry for years and years yet to return via having a baby. Why no longer positioned having a baby on carry for some years, while you reside your existence. Plus at sixteen, boys in uncomplicated terms think of with their manhood. genuine, some do no longer, yet maximum do. And what could take place if he did go away the scene after looking out you're pregnant?? and don't say it may on no account take place. it is a probability. there's no ring on your finger, no piece of paper affirming you're absolute to a minimum of one yet another. All you have is his be conscious that would not propose a good purchase because of the fact which you're no longer pregnant. as quickly because it extremely happens and you're in that undertaking each and every thing differences. have faith me. merely wait hunny. you're able to desire to stay your existence as a young person first earlier residing your existence as a mommy. it is in uncomplicated terms some extra years to adventure distinctive firsts on your existence, earlier having a baby to take over your total existence.
2016-10-06 08:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the father and use protection next time he has a right to be in his childs life
2007-01-02 09:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the both of them. But just make sure to explain that you had sex with your ex before you were with your current boyfriend, and let's hope he believes you! but i think it's good to have both of your kids have the same dad. good luck!
2007-01-02 08:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want the babys father to be in the babys life then tell him. if not then he doesnt have to know if you dont want him to. and tell your boyfriend. its not your fault. you got pregnant when you werent with him.
2007-01-02 08:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by jessg323 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell the both of em now
2007-01-02 08:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by mzsouthernprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds TOO familiar !!
2007-01-02 08:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋