my boyfriend is really hot and all my friends and everyone is all over him and he likes me and he trys to get away away from them. How do i tell them get off my man without being mean?!
2007-01-02 07:47:10 · 23 answers · asked by abercrombie<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lead them elsewhere. find them another guy. if they are your really good friends then just flat out tell them. be nice about it. don't mention jealousy. constructive criticism is always best. or you could have your boyfriend tell them. when guys say it there isn't as much fighting. girl vs. girl is usually bad. either way good luck :)
2007-01-02 07:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Halleigh F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought, go take a vacation from all them with him. It may be a little far fetch to have everyone all up on a guy, but it's something to think about. I mean if he's unknown in a different place then less people are more likely to look and not come up to him and go crazzy over him like people are doing there. Congrates on finding a guy who dosn't take all the fame to his head and only wants what's he thinks is love(you). Besides when you come back, people are going to think that you and him are really serious about the relationship and they'll back off. If they don't then something really is wrong with them or him. he's bringing them something something, or they all are just crazy to begine with.
2007-01-02 16:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try pouring it on with him, just don`t smother him. Keep close by holding hands and let go if he sees his friends. Keep close but at a distant. I`m sure he can tell the other girls he is taken.
2007-01-02 15:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by viper_64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to basically tell them to leave him alone..he is yours..HANDS OFF!!!...especially yours friends...they should respect you..and not hang all over him..and just tell everyone that you dont like it..and for them to find there own guy to hang all over....
2007-01-02 15:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by tina o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh boy! I definitely know what you are talking about. You should tell them to stop being jealous or kiss him in front of them to tell those girls that HE'S YOURS! It's not a big deal. Somehow they'll leave him or you alone.
2007-01-02 15:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Asian_Bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're all over your man and you want to tell them to stop without being mean? GTF off my man! Are they friends if they're on your man...
2007-01-02 15:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to back off.
2007-01-02 15:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Buffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a stick around. If you see someone talking to him, hit them with the stick.
Voila. Problem solved.
2007-01-02 15:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about being mean. If you and your guy are uncomfortable...just tell them, but he should tell people as well.
2007-01-02 15:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by Starwyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to some of them individually and ask nicely
2007-01-02 15:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by TheBigCheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋