Why do guys tolerate girls? Look at the modern age of male and female. Wherever we go, we have to either ask or let the female know where we are going. "Honey, Can I go out with my friends?, honey, Can I go to the potty?" Women are so controlling. "You can't do this, you can't do that." I brought the buddies over for monday night football, WHACK!! the female says no monday night football. What the Hell is that? I'm out with my buddies, We're all tough guys, playing football on the field. The female comes by WHACK!! "come home!!" drags me home. When we act funny, we are call stupid male. When a female acts funny, they are call humorous. Why is it that a women can hit us around and we can't lay a finger on a women? A women can call us male stupid but we can't call a women stupid. Why are women so clingy? "Hold my hand in public, kiss me in public." Why do they always want attention? Can't get it from us so they go and get it from a stranger on the street. Comments anyone?
2007-01-02 07:46:14 · 21 answers · asked by Tom L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't need your criticism. I'm not gay for your information. I didn't come on here to be criticize by people who don't know what I'm talking about because they haven't seen the light of day. If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything!!!!
2007-01-02 08:36:28 · update #1
in the early years of humans men lost their hair as a sign of maturity. Women would look for bald men, and that was attractive. Because women kept making babies with bald men that gene was carried on. Now baldness is no longer attractive. Just remember that saying...bald is beautiful.
And realize that there are differences between men and women. if u dont want women and ur not gay then suck it up and be a hermit. There are women out there who fit what your looking for. And men are just as bad as women.
2007-01-02 07:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by ... :) 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all do you make a point to take your gal out just the two of you?? if so good--second thing here when your buddies come over for MNF do they make a mess and is your wife expected to wait on all of you like food and drinks?? And does she have to do all the clean up afterwords?? If so that huge in a woman's eyes--what fun is that for her?? And further more if your gal is hitting you I would run --there is no reason a person man or woman should lay hands in anger to the other--The attention thing is this--when you are out with a woman they want to be the center of your attention--its a way of saying "I am loved by this man " sort of a show off thing but I know plenty of guys that date or are married to what I call eye candy--so it goes both ways
Hope I was of some help--Happy new Year
2007-01-02 15:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will never resolve this question because you throw everything in. This is not a discrete question that can be answered but something that needs to be broken down either in a personal dialog (diary, journal, meditation) or in therapy.
Unless you have a gun held to your head, this is your choice to stay in this relationship. If that "WHACK" means 'hitting' you should get out tonight. It's true that women have more freedom to abuse men but not all women are abusive. Man or Women, you don't have to stay. the courts are more sympathetic to men now and you should document past incidents.
While your question is rambling I agree that some of the answers are incredibly sexist and wouldn't be given to a women in your position. many of those people wouldn't "blame the victim" if you were a women.
The usual tactic to shut up a man who complains about wanting to spend time without his woman is to call him gay. It's like calling a women slut if she wants to go out without her man. it's clear sexism but it's okay if it's used against a man.
2007-01-04 09:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Breandan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good point, and actually originates from women being thought of as inferior.
These women think they are superior for doing so, but they are actually showing that they are insecure about being treated with respect, therefore they think that they are inferior but decide to act superior so nobody can know.
Don't get me wrong, I'm all for woman rights. I believe all humans are created equally, but that is EQUAL! I hate how if a boy claims that men are smarter are women is is looked upon as sexist and is discourgaed for such behavior to make such a coment, but if a girl says that women are smarter than men, everybody just accepts it and plays along.
Those women are simply insecure and want to get rid of the insecurity by having a strong clench over a male. Equality is the way to go.
I am also often mad at the not being able to hit a woman, but women can hit men all they want. Women say that they want to be treated equally, do the same jobs men do, play the same sports as men, but they only use this when being a woman would hinder them. Many women have nothing agaisnt being pampered as a queen and having men not be able to hit them, and that's just hypocritical.
Overall, you're right, and if we ever want equality in the world, we need to abolish any gender stereotypes and accept each other as people without looking at the gender.
2007-01-02 15:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by locomonohijo 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are losing more than your hair to your girl. Stop her controlling ways before it costs you the family jewels. There should always be a midpoint for both of you to find, if you let her walk all over you from the beginning, you might as well buy yourself a murse.
2007-01-02 15:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tom take it from a woman we want somthing to brag about to our friends and wene we go at it in public it makes us look stronger we hate looking weak unless we realy want attention i say if this is what your girlfriend is doing dont dump her its just the way we are she is trying ,NOT to lose you ,making sure you guys dont lose touch and, that you dont cheat on her, good luck and your losing your hair because of the stress you feel in your life not from your girl stuoid
2007-01-02 15:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by ryanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to be a little boy a play with your little friends all your life, you should have stayed home with mommy. You must be fat, lazy, and ugly and married to a woman that you're ashamed to be seen with, if you don't want to hold her hand and kiss her in public. At least she wants attention from you and not from her little playmates. GROW UP!!!!
2007-01-02 15:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Angel L 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
would you like some cheese with that whine??? you don't have to tolerate us at all, you can always go to the other side, I'm sure there are plenty gay men waiting for some fresh meat.....
remember this rant of yours when you wonder why you don't have anyone that cares enough about your life to ask where you are going...
2007-01-02 15:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Cos that's how women picked us. They like it.
2007-01-02 15:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by smile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher."--Socrates
So do you have any words of wisdom?
2007-01-02 16:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by Darren 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋