Ok feminists, you will get equality if you put into society, but r u wiling toput in the effort over ur pride?

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Hmmm..I just saw this parade of feminists and they were being all aggressive and stuff...This was really annoying. I don't really know what feminism's point is....but recently I have gained a better idea...Here is what I think the solution is to what they seek:

ok---if you really want to be equal....if you really really do (ugly betty's, gordas, and hot lolipops)...Then this is what would have to happen:

1. you would have to ask men out, and put YOUR pride on the line...just as we do...and then we would have equal respect for you.

2. You would have to be less sensible about every little shi-t we say about you....yea, let us talk about your ***, boobs, just as we talk crap about out baldness and fatness....that is why men have such a tight bond....if you really want to be treated equal...don't get all PC and sexually harassed by every single crap--or joke we pull...

3. And you would be more understanding of men that have mental problems with sexual impulse, instead of being all

Surprised…and be less money grubbing in the courtroom by using the ‘compassion’ from men for you being the ‘weaker sex’ ….and mind you, this just feeds the stereotype so its in your interest not to do it.

After this is satisfied, then by all means…be equal…but you have to realize, equality is earned, respect is earned…and natural fairness is what dictates those terms (emotional hardwiring; pride, love, etc)

Too much of a demand? Too much of a demand to your pride and showcasing?

Well, then be my guest…keep those curves, get as skinny as you can….be submissive in society…and therefore get all self-concious about your looks and suffer yourself to death… and be vulnerable and considered ‘other’ in the office….

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This is not intended to all women (I am not a women hater…I love women…)…but it is intended to some annoyances and fems, etc. yea. Uhum.

Answer 1

I understand your frustrations, but it seems to me as though you are seeing feminism as being something that Men have to give Women, and as something Women have to earn.

HOWEVER, men are allowed to be men and still get along in the world.

That is the problem with people being against feminism. I don't profess to be a feminist so to say, however, I do work in a prodimently male field with guys, love a great football game, the best night out I can come up with is hanging with friends in a sports bar drinking beer and shooting pool, and If I have to hear one more time about "Lifetime channel and Girly Movies" being for me, I'm going to scream.

I DO not however, want to be like a man in every way. I am not homosexual, I love wearing things that are sexy or hot, and being a MOM is a lot of fun. I feel as though the world should not be about a man taking care of me, but rather about each individual (whether male or female) being able to take care of themselves and contribute just as well to their families and lifestyles. (I have raised 3 children on my own and done a great job of it).


The idea of fighting for feminism, just isn't about Guys giving in and giving us our way. I think you are taking things that way, and I am sure that there are people who profess to be a feminist who actually think that way as well. Fight for equality should not just be about changing the minds of what men think, but changing the ways that women think as well.

As for the fat and being nasty to eachother part, I don't believe that People in general should be that way. BUT I can take a good joke, just as long as the person dishing one out can take one back. Sexual innuendos do not upset or bother me. However, again I am in a predominently male field, and have found that there are a vast amount of men out there that cannot take a joke on them either.

Answer 2

Oh dear, you are a bit hot under the collar, aren't you?? I love being a woman, don't think asking someone out and putting your pride on the line compares to what woman sometimes have to endure, but still very happy with who and what I am! (Even if I need to lose a couple of pounds after Christmas LOL) I can write a few pages on this, but let's leave it at that for now.

Answer 3

I put in my bit with correct spelling and grammar. I take it you are not yet out of first grade to produce such an appalling piece of rubbish. Your spelling is hopeless, even with a spell checker available. Maybe you will be taken more seriously when you grow up.

Oh, and it is obvious from the garbage you have produced, you are a woman hater.

Answer 4

where is gloria steinem?