I am 15 and I have a weird problem... I am in love with Scarlett Johansson, it is completely irrational but no matter how hard I try I can't control it. Everytime I dream about going out with her. I'm in major depression because of her. i can't calm myself down, I have a high blood pressure constantly because of her. What to do?? When I see her, it's the most beautiful feeling, so great yet so frustrating. My hands get cold, trembling a bit, I feel a certain vibe inside of my belly, my eyes are hungry and I'm almost dying. I'm engaged in science, but all fell apart when I fell in love with her. SHE IS ALL I NEED. How come?
BTW. Isn't she beautiful in this picture?
http://img120.imageshack.us/img120/3084/...
Note 1: I'm very handsome and successful, real girls like me and I have a very good life. But I keep thinking about her only!
2007-01-02 07:29:13 · 5 answers · asked by ciomlol 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First, quit saying you "can't." Yes you can. You have the capability, but you either don't know how to access it or you haven't decided to do it yet.
Second, quit blaming her. Take responsibility for what has happened to you. It's not "because of her," it's because of you and your thought patterns.
Third, quit saying you "need" her. No, you don't. You survived just fine until this point without her. The only things you really "need" are food, water and sleep.
Your words are very telling of your thought patterns. You're forcing yourself into this rut. Start by cutting out some of those highly irrational words and then, regularly, little by little, start figuring out how to feel those feelings towards yourself. Co-dependency is bad enough, but co-dependency on someone you're never gonna meet? Oh lordy...
2007-01-02 07:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling you are not kidding. I think you have a bigger problem than any of us can help you with.
UNLESS there is something on that "imageshack" that is supposed to be funny. I don't open anything on here or any where else. I don't even open an email unless I am positive who is on the other end.
With that being said, I think you should talk to someone. Perhaps someone you trust and feel close to. This crush is not real and can never happen. You have to face that and you need to seek help as soon as possible with it...........
This better not be a joke.....
2007-01-02 07:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would feel a lot better if you talked to someone about it which is probably a really hard thing to do so i would suggest a shrink but im not saying you're mental or anything
2007-01-02 07:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say that every one in the world has a twin...i suggest go seek out her twin and woo her....!!! ah no only messin (but it is an option!!!)
p.s isnt that a bit big headed??? 'I'm very handsome and successful, real girls like me'
2007-01-02 08:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by I_Luv_P!NK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't never did anything--you're obssessed--go talk to a psychologist.
2007-01-02 14:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋