Ok feminists, you will get equality if you put into society, but r u wiling toput in the effort over ur pride?

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Hmmm..I just saw this parade of feminists and they were being all aggressive and stuff...This was really annoying. I don't really know what feminism's point is....but recently I have gained a better idea...Here is what I think the solution is to what they seek:

ok---if you really want to be equal....if you really really do (ugly betty's, gordas, and hot lolipops)...Then this is what would have to happen:

1. you would have to ask men out, and put YOUR pride on the line...just as we do...and then we would have equal respect for you.

2. You would have to be less sensible about every little shi-t we say about you....yea, let us talk about your ***, boobs, just as we talk crap about out baldness and fatness....that is why men have such a tight bond....if you really want to be treated equal...don't get all PC and sexually harassed by every single crap--or joke we pull...

3. And you would be more understanding of men that have mental problems with sexual impulse, instead of being all

Surprised…and be less money grubbing in the courtroom by using the ‘compassion’ from men for you being the ‘weaker sex’ ….and mind you, this just feeds the stereotype so its in your interest not to do it.

After this is satisfied, then by all means…be equal…but you have to realize, equality is earned, respect is earned…and natural fairness is what dictates those terms (emotional hardwiring; pride, love, etc)

Too much of a demand? Too much of a demand to your pride and showcasing?

Well, then be my guest…keep those curves, get as skinny as you can….be submissive in society…and therefore get all self-concious about your looks and suffer yourself to death… and be vulnerable and considered ‘other’ in the office….

Its only natural emotionally. Otherwise, be my guest Helga and make my day.

This is not intended to all women (I am NOT a women hater…I love women…I really do)…but it is intended to those angry helgas that get on my nerves.

jus kid...not only to angry helgas--don't get annoyed...your not an angry helga.

courtney k...

.tushey..I like that response. I agree, I would not like women who were NOT sensititive and I think women are a lot better than men for that. In fact, I will agree with you that women are better than men in most things. But socially, feminists apparently beleive they are 'unequal'. And I did introspection of why they must feel that way and I came up with what I thought would accurately make them equal in men's eyes (in their mind). This does not apply to all women. But if women that were fems must realize that equality and 'fairnes', just as respect, comes with a price...and you must put into society to get what you want ...with effort...Nothing is free. Risk and pride is a necessary requesite for acceptance..

Those of you who are regular gals don't need to pay attention.

Qwyrx---

I will disagree with you sir, that men do not have tigher bonds. Men have tighter bonds statistically (and I have my own studies there buddy), because they don't take themselves so seriously or uptight amongst men.

Many women, not all, however, get really uptight about looks and this or that, or comments...and therefore develope detachness amongst females...although they can be friends...This is why they prize the 'male' bond so much...

This is not all women...I know many a casual friend of mine that are regular and casual and can take jokes amongst women and are regular women.

Furthermore, you over-react as far as my comment about sensitivity in women ...taking joeks does not equate to 'harassement'---that is part of the uptight unbalanced reaction toward such situations .I don't think its any secret that there is an over-sensitive and uptight atmosphere in many circles (especially fems)...about jokes, etc.

by all means, I do not agree in a man

touching a girl's bum while she is reaching for paper in the printer.. That's just naughty.

Women should not have to put up with insults to be accepted...This is degrading if anything else...

What I do think should change though, is that the uptight atmosphere of fems, should come to realize to take life a little easier...maybe break a smile there pussycat...and look at the great world ....instead of being all uptight about every little joke a man pulls...if a man is like 'I can't concentrate with all these **** going around' in the office...for example...a fem would probably act all uptight...probably liberal...

a regular gal would laugh....You have to realize that laughter disarms tensions a lot better than uptightness...It just makes our differences greater....

and severs our connections as human beings...between man and women...but especially between man and fem...

Furthermore....fucktart...I have had many more escapades with women that you will have in your whole life...

so don't try to be a little coward and try to use the winner/loser paradigm to bust my balls because I speak out.

I have many women friends...I think they are much better friends than guy friends....I love women and women like me....so why don't you back off you chicken **** and grow some balls before you tell ME to grow up...This was itended for fems mainly anyway...

cheers, and have a fanastic day..

o and when I said that it makes 'our differences greater' I meant uptightness...

If your all uptight about the rights...and do not take life with a little laugh once in a while...our differences and 'seperation' will grow...instead of the all lasting equality and justice we all search for as human beings...men and women..

o and one more thing...Qwyx...whatever the hell that means...

I have more fun with women in a day, than you have in your whole life....so grow some balls and stop trying to bust balls u chicken shittles.

the reason I think these sorts of convs do not arise more often is that talking about these relations amongst women and men is risky...because it puts your pride on line...we should put in on both sides...and eventually we will reach an acceptable balance..but aritificial boundaries only make things worse...that's all, its not a big deal as long as you see the comedy in life....communications is key amongst us...walls only make our differences greater...(fems and us--regular men and women).

norsebein...although I do not agree with your views...

you seem to sincerely beleive and have a purity of truth in your statement...after all, why would you answer with pride on line against women?

I think these are only certain women norsebein.--but although I would normally be inclined to bash you...I sense the purity in your statement..

This means an emotion or emotional hardwiring is in play...and this is the essence of truth.

Therefore, if you feel that way, then that means you have a perception of unfairness...and if it comes from emotional hardwiring. Its true unfairness. Therefore, I never shun the little guy.

I do think there have been many cases where some women have been treated more than fairly...and its unfair in certain situations as far as the courtroom formen, etc...but my question was referring to fems not to women in general...

fems and 'greedy' women take note from this naysayer...if his feeling is pure...then its unfairness in the works...so be more fair.

or its natural that nature will have a backlass....its the purity of the natural justice of neural hardwiring and nature.

I think feminism was a good intention but that paved the way to hell...it was an over-reaction and an unnecessary reaction to the inequality in the workforce.

Over-reactions always beget a symetrical over-reaction from the opposite side in america---usually because of, I think, the emotionally unbalanced uptightness of the puritans fomented since the beginning...always in a vicious cycle.

Why aren't we more balanced and practical in the first place? People inclining more to the purple is a good start politically. Maybe our society as a whole should take things more with a laugh. Maybe we should heed more from latinos in this regard...more laidback...and less uptight...we would probably learn much.

norsebein...o ok, I just saw your 'not all women but some' --sorry for perceiving otherwise.

Answer 1

I must be honest, there is no way I'm going to read that long essay you wrote.
I just wanted to say

Feminism is out of control.

Answer 2

In a way I do agree with your statements about women and their constant demand for "equality". They always complain and moan about their problems, do you ever hear men complain about, hmm, I don't know, anything! We are the ones who are supposed to listen to women and what they have to say. I think that now-a-days, it is the men who are being treated as the lesser of the two. You can always hear women say "If I know what I want, I'll get it!" which just helps display their greediness, (and I am not saying all women are like this, but these kind of women DO EXIST). Women DO usually get what they want, and most aren't afraid to do whatever it is they need to get it, but then when any one decides to judge them, who gets blamed? The men, of course. Men aren't even allowed their own opinions without being bashed or criticized. Look at the media. The women are always given sympathy and the benefit of the doubt when any kind of situation occurs. Feminism is pretty much the idea that women are right about everything!

Answer 3

I'm a feminist, and I have known many women to ask men out....men don't have tight bonds, in fact--studies show that their bonds are generally based on shared activities, while women's bonds are based on emotional connections.

Women have no responsibility to be harrassed--that's like an saying to an African-American, "you can be equal, but only if I can call you lazy and stupid."

Men that have mental problems with sexual impulses, that cannot control those impulses, should be in therapy or jail. Period.

Oh, and I'm male. Grow up.

Answer 4

I wouldn't want to be equal to you or any other man- we were always better and will always be better because we can learn everything that we were never allowed to learn and we'll still have feelings and be sensitive. That's where men will never stand up.
PS- I didn't read it either- way too long and I figured it would be all woman bashing BS anyhow

Answer 5

I read parts of it, but I wanted to agree with the girl at the top. Feminism is very out of control. Its gotten to the point where some of it is just ridiculous now.