Is there any way of stopping yourself from falling out of love?

Question

I am with this amazing man who I think I love dearly. We are in a very secure relationship. Financially, emotionally and physically. But at the same time I am scared to fall out of love with him? I still care for him, am very trustworthy and confident in the relationship but find myself picking out stupid annoying habits he has. I only want to be with him for the rest of my life so is there any way I can avoid losing interest in him??? I have been with other ppl and the attration fades and I am discusted with them so is there any way to avoid falling out of love with him?

Answer 1

You are making the perfect first step to having a great relationship...bringing into awareness what you WANT.

Staying in love requires hard-core work. It is easy to fall into the trap of noticing others shortcomings. Many of us have been raised this way and frankly, it is much easier to find fault than to praise.

Make a VERY conscious effort to only see the good in your mate. See the good in him, see the good in your relationship and you might even experience a level of intimacy and satisfaction you've never encountered. The more you give the more you WILL receive.

We manifest what we focus on...if you sit around thinking about what you don't want...YOU'LL GET EXACTLY THAT...use all of your energy to focus on the positive...try it!

Have Fun and Happy New Year!

Answer 2

Make sure you spend quality time together..give yourself massages..talk ..buy each other little gifts ..pay each other compliments..spice up your sex life with some role playing..toys..videos..clothes...give that a try and if it doesnt work then nothing will...you will have to stop lying to yourself and him.

Answer 3

distance from each other...dont be in each others face all the time. go away with your friends for the weekend...absense makes the heart grow much fonder